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description: auntie asked if mum's new "friend" is coming to xmas and mum went red and said "don't" — what's going on and what do i say? Test 19 · ★ of lesson 196 «White lies and kind silence» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school, with the dependency tree and pragmatics of the question and of each opt
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# Test 19 · ★ · White lies and kind silence

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auntie asked if mum's new "friend" is coming to xmas and mum went red and said "don't" — what's going on and what do i say?

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**Mova's choice:** option 3 · **The right answer:** option 4 · wrong ✗ · **Who acts:** auntie, new friend, mum, i · **What happens:** ask, come, go, say, not do, go on · **To what, where:** xmas · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is test 19 · ★ of lesson 196 «White lies and kind silence» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives the question's syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause, then the 4 options as the student saw them, each with its tree and pragmatics. Every text is parsed by Mova itself. How the student answered it, with the score of every option and why: [the test at school](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/school-run/everyday/196-white-lies-and-kind-silence/#t19).

## The question {#question}

```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence:t19:1
# text = auntie asked if mum's new "friend" is coming to xmas and mum went red and said "don't" — what's going on and what do i say?
1	auntie	auntie	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	2	nsubj	_	_
2	asked	ask	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
3	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	11	mark	_	_
4	mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	nmod:poss	_	SpaceAfter=No
5	's	's	PART	POS	_	4	case	_	_
6	new	new	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	8	amod	_	_
7	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	8	punct	_	SpaceAfter=No
8	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	nsubj	_	SpaceAfter=No
9	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	8	punct	_	_
10	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	aux	_	_
11	coming	come	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	2	ccomp	_	_
12	to	to	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
13	xmas	Xmas	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	11	obl	_	_
14	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	16	cc	_	_
15	mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	nsubj	_	_
16	went	go	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	2	conj	_	_
17	red	red	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	16	xcomp	_	_
18	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	19	cc	_	_
19	said	say	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	2	conj	_	_
20	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	21	punct	_	SpaceAfter=No
21	do	do	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	19	ccomp	_	SpaceAfter=No
22	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	21	advmod	_	SpaceAfter=No
23	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	21	punct	_	_
24	—	-	PUNCT	:	_	27	punct	_	_
25	what	what	PRON	WP	PronType=Int	27	nsubj	_	SpaceAfter=No
26	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	27	aux	_	_
27	going	go	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	2	conj	_	_
28	on	on	ADP	RP	_	27	compound:prt	_	_
29	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	33	cc	_	_
30	what	what	PRON	WP	PronType=Int	33	obj	_	_
31	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	33	aux	_	_
32	i	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	33	nsubj	_	_
33	say	say	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	27	conj	_	SpaceAfter=No
34	?	?	PUNCT	.	_	2	punct	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **ask** *speech: ask* | past | auntie |  |  |  |  |  | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V how S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 2 | **come** *a condition, not said to happen* | present · progressive | mum's new friend |  |  | xmas |  |  | vn escape-51.1-1 «NP V PP.initial\_location»: agent=Theme to xmas=Initial\_Location |
| 3 | **go** | past | mum |  |  |  |  | red *property* | vn disappearance-48.2-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 4 | **say** *speech: assert* | past | auntie *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 5 | **not** **do** *in a quote* | infinitive |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn act-114-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **go on** | present · progressive |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn function-105.2.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 7 | **say** *speech: assert* | present · do-support | i |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V NP.topic»: agent=Agent what=Topic |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

## The options {#options}

### Option 1 {#o1}

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
Mum is angry at the friend, so you should ask the friend to stay away at Christmas

<!-- fold The tree, 17 words -->
```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence:t19:o1:1
# text = Mum is angry at the friend, so you should ask the friend to stay away at Christmas
1	Mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	nsubj	_	_
2	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	3	cop	_	_
3	angry	angry	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	0	root	_	_
4	at	at	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
5	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	6	det	_	_
6	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	obl	_	SpaceAfter=No
7	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	11	punct	_	_
8	so	so	ADV	RB	_	11	advmod	_	_
9	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	11	nsubj	_	_
10	should	should	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	11	aux	_	_
11	ask	ask	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	3	parataxis	_	_
12	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	13	det	_	_
13	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	obj	_	_
14	to	to	PART	TO	_	15	mark	_	_
15	stay	stay	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	11	xcomp	_	_
16	away	away	ADV	RB	_	15	advmod	_	_
17	at	at	ADP	IN	_	18	case	_	_
18	Christmas	Christmas	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	15	obl	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is** | present | Mum |  |  |  |  | at the friend; angry *property* | tree rules |
| 2 | **ask** *speech: ask* | should | you |  | the friend |  |  |  | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V NP whether S\_INF»: agent=Agent friend=Recipient clause=Topic |
| 3 | **stay away** *not said to happen* | to-infinitive | you *not said here* |  |  | Christmas |  | away *property* | vn exist-47.1 «NP V PP.location»: agent=Theme at christmas=Location |

### Option 2 {#o2}

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
Auntie means a work friend, so tell everyone at school

```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence:t19:o2:1
# text = Auntie means a work friend, so tell everyone at school
1	Auntie	auntie	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	2	nsubj	_	_
2	means	mean	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
3	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	5	det	_	_
4	work	work	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	compound	_	_
5	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	2	obj	_	SpaceAfter=No
6	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	8	punct	_	_
7	so	so	ADV	RB	_	8	advmod	_	_
8	tell	tell	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	2	conj	_	_
9	everyone	everyone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Tot	8	iobj	_	_
10	at	at	ADP	IN	_	11	case	_	_
11	school	school	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	obl	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **mean** | present | Auntie | a work friend |  |  |  |  | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent friend=Topic |
| 2 | **tell** *speech: assert* | infinitive | Auntie *not said here* |  | everyone | school |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent everyone=Recipient |

### Option 3 · ← Mova's choice {#o3}

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
It's a secret game, so keep asking mum until she says

```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence:t19:o3:1
# text = It's a secret game, so keep asking mum until she says
1	It	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	5	nsubj	_	SpaceAfter=No
2	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	cop	_	_
3	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	5	det	_	_
4	secret	secret	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	5	amod	_	_
5	game	game	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	SpaceAfter=No
6	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	8	punct	_	_
7	so	so	ADV	RB	_	8	advmod	_	_
8	keep	keep	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	5	parataxis	_	_
9	asking	ask	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	8	xcomp	_	_
10	mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	9	obj	_	_
11	until	until	SCONJ	IN	_	13	mark	_	_
12	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	13	nsubj	_	_
13	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	9	advcl	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is a** | present | It | a secret game |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 2 | **keep** | infinitive |  |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 3 | **ask** *speech: ask* | gerund |  |  | mum |  |  |  | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent mum=Recipient |
| 4 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | she |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |

### Option 4 · ✓ the right answer {#o4}

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
Mum may have a new boyfriend she isn't ready to talk about; let her tell you

<!-- fold The tree, 17 words -->
```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence:t19:o4:1
# text = Mum may have a new boyfriend she isn't ready to talk about; let her tell you
1	Mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	nsubj	_	_
2	may	may	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	3	aux	_	_
3	have	have	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
4	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	6	det	_	_
5	new	new	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	amod	_	_
6	boyfriend	boyfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	obj	_	_
7	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	10	nsubj	_	_
8	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	10	cop	_	SpaceAfter=No
9	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	10	advmod	_	_
10	ready	ready	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	acl:relcl	_	_
11	to	to	PART	TO	_	12	mark	_	_
12	talk	talk	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	10	xcomp	_	_
13	about	about	ADP	IN	_	12	obl	_	SpaceAfter=No
14	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	15	punct	_	_
15	let	let	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	3	parataxis	_	_
16	her	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	15	obj	_	_
17	tell	tell	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	15	xcomp	_	_
18	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs	17	iobj	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **have** | may | Mum | a new boyfriend |  |  |  |  | vn birth-28.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent boyfriend=Patient |
| 2 | **not** **is** | present | Mum | a new boyfriend *not said here* |  |  |  | ready *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **talk about** | to-infinitive | Mum *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn talk-37.5 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **let** | infinitive |  | Mum |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 5 | **tell** *speech: assert* | infinitive | Mum *not said here* |  | you |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent you=Recipient |

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