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# Test 17 · Frustration, loneliness, guilt and living with siblings

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
my friend says her online friend "Jess, 11" wants to meet up alone n not tell parents, she's met loads of girls like that

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**Mova's choice:** option 3 · **The right answer:** option 3 · right ✓ · **Who acts:** friend, online friend · **What happens:** say, want, meet up, not tell, meet · **To what, where:** parents, loads · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is test 17 of lesson 94 «Frustration, loneliness, guilt and living with siblings» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives the question's syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause, then the 4 options as the student saw them, each with its tree and pragmatics. Every text is parsed by Mova itself. How the student answered it, with the score of every option and why: [the test at school](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/school-run/everyday/94-frustration-loneliness-and-siblings/#t17).

## The question {#question}

```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:94-frustration-loneliness-and-siblings:t17:1
# text = my friend says her online friend "Jess, 11" wants to meet up alone n not tell parents, she's met loads of girls like that
1	my	my	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Sing|Person=1|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	2	nmod:poss	_	_
2	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	nsubj	_	_
3	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
4	her	her	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	6	nmod:poss	_	_
5	online	online	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	amod	_	_
6	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	12	nsubj	_	_
7	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	8	punct	_	SpaceAfter=No
8	Jess	Jess	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	6	appos	_	SpaceAfter=No
9	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	10	punct	_	_
10	11	11	NUM	CD	NumForm=Digit|NumType=Card	8	appos	_	SpaceAfter=No
11	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	10	punct	_	_
12	wants	want	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	3	ccomp	_	_
13	to	to	PART	TO	_	14	mark	_	_
14	meet	meet	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	12	xcomp	_	_
15	up	up	ADP	RP	_	14	compound:prt	_	_
16	alone	alone	ADV	RB	_	14	advmod	_	_
17	n	n	ADV	FW	_	19	advmod	_	_
18	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	19	advmod	_	_
19	tell	tell	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	14	conj	_	_
20	parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	19	iobj	_	SpaceAfter=No
21	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
22	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	24	nsubj	_	SpaceAfter=No
23	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	aux	_	_
24	met	meet	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	3	conj	_	_
25	loads	load	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	obj	_	_
26	of	of	ADP	IN	_	27	case	_	_
27	girls	girl	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	25	nmod	_	_
28	like	like	ADP	IN	_	29	case	_	_
29	that	that	PRON	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	24	obl	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | my friend |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 2 | **want** | present | friend's online friend |  |  |  |  |  | vn want-32.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Pivot clause=Theme |
| 3 | **meet up** *not said to happen* | to-infinitive | friend's online friend *not said here* |  |  |  |  | alone *property* | vn meet-36.3-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **not** **tell** *speech: assert* | infinitive | friend's online friend *not said here* |  | parents |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent parent=Recipient |
| 5 | **meet** | present · passive | friend | loads of girls |  |  |  | like that | vn meet-36.3-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent load=Co-Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

## The options {#options}

### Option 1 {#o1}

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Go, it is fine if she has met other girls

```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:94-frustration-loneliness-and-siblings:t17:o1:1
# text = Go, it is fine if she has met other girls
1	Go	go	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	SpaceAfter=No
2	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	5	punct	_	_
3	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	5	expl	_	_
4	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	cop	_	_
5	fine	fine	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	1	conj	_	_
6	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	9	mark	_	_
7	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	9	nsubj	_	_
8	has	have	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	9	aux	_	_
9	met	meet	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	5	advcl	_	_
10	other	other	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	11	amod	_	_
11	girls	girl	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	9	obj	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **go** | imperative | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn disappearance-48.2-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **is** | present | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  | fine *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **meet** *a condition, not said to happen* | present · perfect | she | other girls |  |  |  |  | vn meet-36.3-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent girl=Co-Agent |

### Option 2 {#o2}

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
Keep it secret, as Jess asked

```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:94-frustration-loneliness-and-siblings:t17:o2:1
# text = Keep it secret, as Jess asked
1	Keep	keep	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
2	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	1	obj	_	_
3	secret	secret	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	1	xcomp	_	SpaceAfter=No
4	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	7	punct	_	_
5	as	as	SCONJ	IN	_	7	mark	_	_
6	Jess	Jess	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	7	nsubj	_	_
7	asked	ask	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	1	parataxis	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **keep** | imperative | you *not said here* | it |  |  |  | secret *property* | vn keep-15.2 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent it=Theme |
| 2 | **ask** *speech: ask* | past | Jess |  |  |  |  |  | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |

### Option 3 · ← Mova's choice · ✓ the right answer {#o3}

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Tell a trusted adult; someone online asking for a secret meeting may be an adult pretending

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```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:94-frustration-loneliness-and-siblings:t17:o3:1
# text = Tell a trusted adult; someone online asking for a secret meeting may be an adult pretending
1	Tell	tell	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
2	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	4	det	_	_
3	trusted	trust	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	4	amod	_	_
4	adult	adult	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	1	obj	_	SpaceAfter=No
5	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	16	punct	_	_
6	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	16	nsubj	_	_
7	online	online	ADV	RB	_	6	advmod	_	_
8	asking	ask	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	6	acl	_	_
9	for	for	ADP	IN	_	12	case	_	_
10	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	12	det	_	_
11	secret	secret	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	12	amod	_	_
12	meeting	meeting	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	obl	_	_
13	may	may	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	16	aux	_	_
14	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	16	cop	_	_
15	an	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	16	det	_	_
16	adult	adult	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	1	obl	_	_
17	pretending	pretend	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	16	acl	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **tell** *speech: assert* | imperative | you *not said here* |  | a trusted adult |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent adult=Recipient |
| 2 | **trust** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn conjecture-29.5-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **ask** *speech: ask* | gerund |  |  |  |  |  | for a secret meeting | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **is a** | may | someone | a adult |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 5 | **pretend** | gerund | a adult *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |

### Option 4 {#o4}

<!-- .ven lang=en -->
Go, but only if Jess sends a nice photo first and promises she is really 11 years old

<!-- fold The tree, 18 words -->
```conllu
# sent_id = question:everyday:94-frustration-loneliness-and-siblings:t17:o4:1
# text = Go, but only if Jess sends a nice photo first and promises she is really 11 years old
1	Go	go	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	SpaceAfter=No
2	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	7	punct	_	_
3	but	but	CCONJ	CC	_	7	cc	_	_
4	only	only	ADV	RB	_	6	advmod	_	_
5	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	6	mark	_	_
6	Jess	Jess	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	7	nsubj	_	_
7	sends	send	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	1	conj	_	_
8	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	10	det	_	_
9	nice	nice	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	10	amod	_	_
10	photo	photo	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	7	obj	_	_
11	first	first	ADV	RB	NumForm=Word|NumType=Ord	7	advmod	_	_
12	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	13	cc	_	_
13	promises	promise	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	7	conj	_	_
14	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	19	nsubj	_	_
15	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	19	cop	_	_
16	really	really	ADV	RB	_	17	advmod	_	_
17	11	11	NUM	CD	NumForm=Digit|NumType=Card	18	nummod	_	_
18	years	year	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	19	obl:unmarked	_	_
19	old	old	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	13	ccomp	_	_
```

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **go** | imperative | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn disappearance-48.2-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **send** | present | Jess | a nice photo |  |  |  | first *property* | vn confine-92-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent photo=Theme |
| 3 | **promise** *speech: promise* | present | Jess *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn promise-37.13 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **is** | present | Jess |  |  |  | year | old *property* | tree rules |

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