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title: Older relatives often ask young people "Have you got a boyfriend or… — Dates, engagements and weddings · tree and pragmatics
description: Older relatives often ask young people "Have you got a boyfriend or girlfriend yet?" because they are interested, but many people find it embarrassing, and "Not right now" is a fine answer. Who acts: Older relatives, young people, relatives, many people. A sentence of the lesson «Dates, engagements 
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# Dates, engagements and weddings, sentence 7

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Older relatives often ask young people "Have you got a boyfriend or girlfriend yet?" because they are interested, but many people find it embarrassing, and "Not right now" is a fine answer.

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**Who acts:** Older relatives, young people, relatives, many people · **What happens:** ask, get, be, find · **To what, where:** young people, boyfriend, girlfriend, fine answer · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Dates, engagements and weddings» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Older relatives, young people, relatives, many people), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:013-dates-engagements-and-weddings.lesson:7
# text = Older relatives often ask young people "Have you got a boyfriend or girlfriend yet?" because they are interested, but many people find it embarrassing, and "Not right now" is a fine answer.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 013-dates-engagements-and-weddings.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1
1	Older	old	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	2	amod	_	_
2	relatives	relative	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	nsubj	_	_
3	often	often	ADV	RB	_	4	advmod	_	_
4	ask	ask	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
5	young	young	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	amod	_	_
6	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	iobj	_	_
7	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	4	punct	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=4:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:'':_
8	Have	have	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	10	aux	_	_
9	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	10	nsubj	_	_
10	got	get	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	4	ccomp	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=4:parataxis
11	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	12	det	_	_
12	boyfriend	boyfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	obj	_	_
13	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	14	cc	_	_
14	girlfriend	girlfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	12	conj	_	_
15	yet	yet	ADV	RB	_	10	advmod	_	_
16	?	?	PUNCT	.	_	10	punct	_	_
17	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	10	punct	_	_
18	because	because	SCONJ	IN	_	21	mark	_	_
19	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	21	nsubj	_	_
20	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	21	cop	_	_
21	interested	interested	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	advcl	_	_
22	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	26	punct	_	_
23	but	but	CCONJ	CC	_	26	cc	_	_
24	many	many	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	25	amod	_	_
25	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	26	nsubj	_	_
26	find	find	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	conj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=21:conj
27	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	26	obj	_	_
28	embarrassing	embarrassing	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	26	xcomp	_	_
29	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	39	punct	_	_
30	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	39	cc	_	_
31	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	34	punct	_	_
32	Not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	34	advmod	_	_
33	right	right	ADV	RB	_	34	advmod	_	_
34	now	now	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	39	advmod	_	_
35	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	34	punct	_	_
36	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	39	cop	_	_
37	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	39	det	_	_
38	fine	fine	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	39	amod	_	_
39	answer	answer	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	conj	_	_
40	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **ask** *speech: ask* | present | Older relatives |  | young people |  |  | often *property* | vn urge-58.1-1-1 «NP V NP that S»: agent=Agent people=Recipient clause=Topic |
| 2 | **get** *in a quote* | present · perfect | young people *= people* | a boyfriend or girlfriend |  |  | yet |  | vn comprehend-87.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer boyfriend=Stimulus |
| 3 | **is** | present | relatives *= relative* |  |  |  |  | interested *property* | tree rules |
| 4 | **find** | present | many people | girlfriend |  |  |  | embarrassing *property* | vn discover-84 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent it=Topic |
| 5 | **is a** | present | Older relatives *not said here* | a fine answer |  |  | now |  | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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