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title: Custody, or "arrangements", means deciding where children live and w… — When parents separate · tree and pragmatics
description: Custody, or "arrangements", means deciding where children live and when they see each parent; if parents cannot agree, a mediator (a trained helper who helps them agree) or a family court helps decide what is best for the children. Who acts: Custody, children, parents, trained helper. A sentence of 
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# When parents separate, sentence 13

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Custody, or "arrangements", means deciding where children live and when they see each parent; if parents cannot agree, a mediator (a trained helper who helps them agree) or a family court helps decide what is best for the children.

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**Who acts:** Custody, children, parents, trained helper, mediator · **What happens:** mean, decide, live, see, not agree, train · **To what, where:** parent, parents · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Custody, children, parents, trained helper), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:015-when-parents-separate.lesson:13
# text = Custody, or "arrangements", means deciding where children live and when they see each parent; if parents cannot agree, a mediator (a trained helper who helps them agree) or a family court helps decide what is best for the children.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 015-when-parents-separate.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Custody	custody	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	nsubj	_	_
2	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	5	punct	_	_
3	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	5	cc	_	_
4	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	5	punct	_	_
5	arrangements	arrangement	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	1	conj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=1:appos
6	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	5	punct	_	_
7	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	1	punct	_	_
8	means	mean	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
9	deciding	decide	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	8	ccomp	_	_
10	where	where	ADV	WRB	PronType=Rel	12	advmod	_	_
11	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	12	nsubj	_	_
12	live	live	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	9	ccomp	_	_
13	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	16	cc	_	_
14	when	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	16	advmod	_	_
15	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	16	nsubj	_	_
16	see	see	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	12	conj	_	_
17	each	each	DET	DT	PronType=Tot	18	det	_	_
18	parent	parent	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	obj	_	_
19	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
20	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	24	mark	_	_
21	parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	nsubj	_	_
22	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	24	aux	_	_
23	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	24	advmod	_	_
24	agree	agree	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	41	advcl	_	_
25	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	27	punct	_	_
26	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	27	det	_	_
27	mediator	mediator	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	41	nsubj	_	_
28	(	(	PUNCT	-LRB-	_	31	punct	_	_
29	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	31	det	_	_
30	trained	train	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	31	amod	_	_
31	helper	helper	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	appos	_	_
32	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	33	nsubj	_	_
33	helps	help	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	31	acl:relcl	_	_
34	them	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	33	obj	_	_
35	agree	agree	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	33	xcomp	_	_
36	)	)	PUNCT	-RRB-	_	31	punct	_	_
37	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	40	cc	_	_
38	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	40	det	_	_
39	family	family	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	40	compound	_	_
40	court	court	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	conj	_	_
41	helps	help	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	parataxis	_	_
42	decide	decide	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	41	xcomp	_	_
43	what	what	PRON	WP	PronType=Int	45	nsubj	_	_
44	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	45	cop	_	_
45	best	good	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	42	ccomp	_	_
46	for	for	ADP	IN	_	48	case	_	_
47	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	48	det	_	_
48	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	45	obl	_	_
49	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	8	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **mean** | present | Custody or arrangements |  |  |  |  |  | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 2 | **decide** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V what S\_INF»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 3 | **live** | present | children |  |  |  |  |  | vn exist-47.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 4 | **see** | present | children *= child* | each parent |  |  |  |  | vn comprehend-87.2-1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer parent=Stimulus |
| 5 | **not** **agree** *speech: agree* *a condition, not said to happen* | can | parents |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **train** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn hire-13.5.3 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 7 | **help** | present | a trained helper | parents *= parent* |  |  |  |  | vn help-72.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Agent they=Beneficiary clause=Theme |
| 8 | **agree** *speech: agree* | infinitive | parents *= parent* *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 9 | **help** | present | a mediator or a family court |  |  |  |  |  | vn help-72.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Agent clause=Theme |
| 10 | **decide** | infinitive | a mediator or a family court *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 11 | **is** | present |  |  |  |  |  | for the children; good *property* | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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