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title: A parent who says something unkind about the other and then "Forget… — When parents separate · tree and pragmatics
description: A parent who says something unkind about the other and then "Forget I said that" has slipped; children do not have to agree or pass it on. Who acts: parent, children. A sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school with its dependency tree and the p
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# When parents separate, sentence 18

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A parent who says something unkind about the other and then "Forget I said that" has slipped; children do not have to agree or pass it on.

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**Who acts:** parent, children · **What happens:** say, forget, slip, not have, agree, pass on · **To what, where:** something, park · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (parent, children), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:015-when-parents-separate.lesson:18
# text = A parent who says something unkind about the other and then "Forget I said that" has slipped; children do not have to agree or pass it on.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 015-when-parents-separate.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1
1	A	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	2	det	_	_
2	parent	parent	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	19	nsubj	_	_
3	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	4	nsubj	_	_
4	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	2	acl:relcl	_	_
5	something	something	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	4	obj	_	_
6	unkind	unkind	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	5	amod	_	_
7	about	about	ADP	IN	_	9	case	_	_
8	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	9	det	_	_
9	other	other	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	obl	_	_
10	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	13	cc	_	_
11	then	then	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	13	advmod	_	_
12	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	13	punct	_	_
13	Forget	forget	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	4	conj	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=4:conj|HaikuPos=VERB:VBP:Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
14	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	15	nsubj	_	_
15	said	say	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	13	ccomp	_	_
16	that	that	SCONJ	IN	_	19	mark	_	_
17	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	19	punct	_	_
18	has	have	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	19	aux	_	_
19	slipped	slip	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	0	root	_	_
20	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
21	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	nsubj	_	_
22	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	aux	_	_
23	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	24	advmod	_	_
24	have	have	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	19	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=19:conj
25	to	to	PART	TO	_	26	mark	_	_
26	agree	agree	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	24	xcomp	_	_
27	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	28	cc	_	_
28	pass	pass	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	26	conj	_	_
29	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	28	obj	_	_
30	on	on	ADP	RP	_	28	compound:prt	_	_
31	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	19	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | a parent | something |  |  |  | about the other | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V NP.topic»: agent=Agent something=Topic |
| 2 | **forget** *in a quote* | infinitive | a parent *not said here* |  |  |  | then |  | tree rules |
| 3 | **say** *speech: assert* *in a quote* | past | a parent *= parent* |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **slip** | present · perfect | a parent |  |  |  |  |  | vn calibratable\_cos-45.6.1-1 «NP.attribute V»: agent=Attribute |
| 5 | **not** **have** | present · do-support | children |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 6 | **agree** *speech: agree* | to-infinitive | children *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 7 | **pass on** | infinitive | children *not said here* | park |  |  |  |  | vn send-11.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent it=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:adult-life:015-when-parents-separate.lesson:18`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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