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title: Hurt grown-ups sometimes say unkind things about each other and regr… — When parents separate · tree and pragmatics
description: Hurt grown-ups sometimes say unkind things about each other and regret it; you never have to choose a side or carry their words. Who acts: Hurt grown ups, you, ups. A sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school with its dependency tree and the pra
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# When parents separate, sentence 4

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Hurt grown-ups sometimes say unkind things about each other and regret it; you never have to choose a side or carry their words.

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**Who acts:** Hurt grown ups, you, ups · **What happens:** grow, say, regret, not have, choose, carry · **To what, where:** unkind things, paperwork, side, words · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Hurt grown ups, you, ups), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:015-when-parents-separate.lesson:4
# text = Hurt grown-ups sometimes say unkind things about each other and regret it; you never have to choose a side or carry their words.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 015-when-parents-separate.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×2
1	Hurt	hurt	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	amod	_	_
2	grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	4	amod	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=4:compound|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
3	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	4	punct	_	_
4	ups	up	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	6	nsubj	_	_
5	sometimes	sometimes	ADV	RB	PronType=Ind	6	advmod	_	_
6	say	say	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=0:root|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin
7	unkind	unkind	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	8	amod	_	_
8	things	thing	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	6	obj	_	_
9	about	about	ADP	IN	_	10	case	_	_
10	each	each	DET	DT	PronType=Tot	8	nmod	_	_
11	other	other	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	10	fixed	_	_
12	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	13	cc	_	_
13	regret	regret	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	6	conj	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=6:conj|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin
14	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	13	obj	_	_
15	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	18	punct	_	_
16	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	18	nsubj	_	_
17	never	never	ADV	RB	PronType=Neg	18	advmod	_	_
18	have	have	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	6	parataxis	_	_
19	to	to	PART	TO	_	20	mark	_	_
20	choose	choose	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	18	xcomp	_	_
21	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	22	det	_	_
22	side	side	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	20	obj	_	_
23	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	24	cc	_	_
24	carry	carry	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	20	conj	_	_
25	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	26	nmod:poss	_	_
26	words	word	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	obj	_	_
27	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	6	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | Hurt grown ups | unkind things |  |  |  | about each; sometimes *property* | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V NP.topic»: agent=Agent thing=Topic |
| 3 | **regret** | present | Hurt grown ups *not said here* | paperwork |  |  |  |  | vn admire-31.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer it=Stimulus |
| 4 | **not** **have** | present | you |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 5 | **choose** | to-infinitive | you *not said here* | a side |  |  |  |  | vn get-13.5.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent side=Theme |
| 6 | **carry** | infinitive | you *not said here* | ups's words |  |  |  |  | vn carry-11.4 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent word=Theme |
| 7 | **word** |  | ups *= up* |  |  |  |  |  | nom word «communication transitive»: poss=agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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