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title: Parents say "It's not your fault" because many children secretly thi… — When parents separate · tree and pragmatics
description: Parents say "It's not your fault" because many children secretly think they caused the split, and it is true: children's behaviour does not end a marriage. Who acts: Parents, couple, many children, behaviour. A sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary
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# When parents separate, sentence 8

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Parents say "It's not your fault" because many children secretly think they caused the split, and it is true: children's behaviour does not end a marriage.

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**Who acts:** Parents, couple, many children, behaviour · **What happens:** say, not be, think, cause, be, not end · **To what, where:** fault, split, marriage · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When parents separate» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Parents, couple, many children, behaviour), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:015-when-parents-separate.lesson:8
# text = Parents say "It's not your fault" because many children secretly think they caused the split, and it is true: children's behaviour does not end a marriage.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 015-when-parents-separate.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R8-pos-agree ×1
1	Parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	2	nsubj	_	_
2	say	say	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
3	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	8	punct	_	_
4	It	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	8	nsubj	_	_
5	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	cop	_	_
6	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	8	advmod	_	_
7	your	your	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Person=2|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	8	nmod:poss	_	_
8	fault	fault	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	2	ccomp	_	_
9	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	8	punct	_	_
10	because	because	SCONJ	IN	_	14	mark	_	_
11	many	many	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	12	amod	_	_
12	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	14	nsubj	_	_
13	secretly	secretly	ADV	RB	_	14	advmod	_	_
14	think	think	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	2	advcl	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=2:advcl|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:VerbForm=Inf
15	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	16	nsubj	_	_
16	caused	cause	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	14	ccomp	_	_
17	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	18	det	_	_
18	split	split	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	obj	_	_
19	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	23	punct	_	_
20	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	23	cc	_	_
21	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	23	nsubj	_	_
22	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	23	cop	_	_
23	true	true	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	14	conj	_	_
24	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	30	punct	_	_
25	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	27	nmod:poss	_	_
26	's	's	PART	POS	_	25	case	_	_
27	behaviour	behaviour	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	30	nsubj	_	_
28	does	do	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	30	aux	_	_
29	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	30	advmod	_	_
30	end	end	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	23	parataxis	_	_
31	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	32	det	_	_
32	marriage	marriage	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	30	obj	_	_
33	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	2	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | Parents |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 2 | **not** **is a** *in a quote* | present | couple | your fault |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 3 | **think** *speech: other* | present | many children |  |  |  |  | secretly *property* | vn consider-29.9-2 «NP V how S»: agent=Agent clause=Theme |
| 4 | **cause** | past | parents *= parent* | the split |  |  |  |  | vn engender-27.1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Precondition split=Patient |
| 5 | **is** | present | couple |  |  |  |  | true *property* | tree rules |
| 6 | **not** **end** | present · do-support | children's behaviour | a marriage |  |  |  |  | vn stop-55.4-1-1 «NP V NP.eventuality»: agent=Subeventuality marriage=Eventuality |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:adult-life:015-when-parents-separate.lesson:8`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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