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title: "Because I said so" usually means the parent is too tired to explain… — Sorry, white lies and «because I said so» · tree and pragmatics
description: "Because I said so" usually means the parent is too tired to explain again, or the decision is about safety or fairness and is made; a calm "Can you tell me why?" later works better than arguing. Who acts: parent, decision, you, calm. A sentence of the lesson «Sorry, white lies and «because I said s
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# Sorry, white lies and «because I said so», sentence 12

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"Because I said so" usually means the parent is too tired to explain again, or the decision is about safety or fairness and is made; a calm "Can you tell me why?" later works better than arguing.

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**Who acts:** parent, decision, you, calm · **What happens:** say, mean, be, explain, make, tell · **To what, where:** Most people · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Sorry, white lies and «because I said so»» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (parent, decision, you, calm), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:037-sorry-white-lies-and-because-i-said-so.lesson:12
# text = "Because I said so" usually means the parent is too tired to explain again, or the decision is about safety or fairness and is made; a calm "Can you tell me why?" later works better than arguing.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 037-sorry-white-lies-and-because-i-said-so.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×2, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	4	punct	_	_
2	Because	because	SCONJ	IN	_	4	mark	_	_
3	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	4	nsubj	_	_
4	said	say	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
5	so	so	ADV	RB	_	4	advmod	_	_
6	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	4	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=8:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:``:_
7	usually	usually	ADV	RB	_	8	advmod	_	_
8	means	mean	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	ccomp	_	_
9	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	10	det	_	_
10	parent	parent	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	nsubj	_	_
11	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	13	cop	_	_
12	too	too	ADV	RB	_	13	advmod	_	_
13	tired	tired	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	8	ccomp	_	_
14	to	to	PART	TO	_	15	mark	_	_
15	explain	explain	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	13	advcl	_	_
16	again	again	ADV	RB	_	15	advmod	_	_
17	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	23	punct	_	_
18	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	23	cc	_	_
19	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	20	det	_	_
20	decision	decision	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	nsubj	_	_
21	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	23	cop	_	_
22	about	about	ADP	IN	_	23	case	_	_
23	safety	safety	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	conj	_	_
24	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	25	cc	_	_
25	fairness	fairness	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	conj	_	_
26	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	28	cc	_	_
27	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	28	aux:pass	_	_
28	made	make	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	23	conj	_	_
29	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	31	punct	_	_
30	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	31	det	_	_
31	calm	calm	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	41	nsubj	_	_
32	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	35	punct	_	_
33	Can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	35	aux	_	_
34	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	35	nsubj	_	_
35	tell	tell	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	31	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=31:acl
36	me	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	35	iobj	_	_
37	why	why	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	35	advmod	_	_
38	?	?	PUNCT	.	_	37	punct	_	_
39	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	35	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=37:punct
40	later	late	ADV	RBR	Degree=Cmp	41	advmod	_	_
41	works	work	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	parataxis	_	_
42	better	well	ADV	JJR	Degree=Cmp	41	advmod	_	_
43	than	than	SCONJ	IN	_	44	mark	_	_
44	arguing	argue	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	42	advcl	_	_
45	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: changed form=decl, act=assert, voice=narrator

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **say** *speech: assert* *in a quote* | past | the parent *= parent* |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 2 | **mean** | present |  |  |  |  |  | usually *property* | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V S»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **is** | present | the parent |  |  |  |  | tired *property* | tree rules |
| 4 | **explain** *speech: assert* | to-infinitive | the parent *not said here* |  |  |  | again |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 5 | **is** | present | the decision |  |  |  |  | about safety or fairness | tree rules |
| 6 | **make** | present · passive | the decision *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn build-26.1-1 «NP.asset V NP» |
| 7 | **tell** *speech: assert* *in a quote* | can | you |  | Most people *= people* |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent i=Recipient |
| 8 | **work** | present | a calm |  |  |  |  | late, well *property* | vn employment-95.3 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 9 | **argue** *speech: disagree* | gerund | a calm *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:adult-life:037-sorry-white-lies-and-because-i-said-so.lesson:12`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×2, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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