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title: When a grown-up says "I'm sorry, I was out of order" after a row, it… — Sorry, white lies and «because I said so» · tree and pragmatics
description: When a grown-up says "I'm sorry, I was out of order" after a row, it is a real apology to another adult; adults argue and make up too. Who acts: grown up, row, adults. A sentence of the lesson «Sorry, white lies and «because I said so»» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school with its depe
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# Sorry, white lies and «because I said so», sentence 5

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When a grown-up says "I'm sorry, I was out of order" after a row, it is a real apology to another adult; adults argue and make up too.

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**Who acts:** grown up, row, adults · **What happens:** grow, say, be, argue, make up · **To what, where:** order, real apology · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Sorry, white lies and «because I said so»» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (grown up, row, adults), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:037-sorry-white-lies-and-because-i-said-so.lesson:5
# text = When a grown-up says "I'm sorry, I was out of order" after a row, it is a real apology to another adult; adults argue and make up too.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 037-sorry-white-lies-and-because-i-said-so.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×3, R6-punct-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×2
1	When	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	6	mark	_	_
2	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	5	det	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=3:det
3	grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	5	amod	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=6:nsubj|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
4	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	5	punct	_	_
5	up	up	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	nsubj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=3:compound|HaikuPos=ADP:RP:_
6	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	26	advcl	_	_
7	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	10	punct	_	_
8	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	10	nsubj	_	_
9	'm	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	10	cop	_	_
10	sorry	sorry	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	ccomp	_	_
11	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	16	punct	_	_
12	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	16	nsubj	_	_
13	was	be	AUX	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	16	cop	_	_
14	out	out	ADP	IN	_	16	case	_	_
15	of	of	ADP	IN	_	16	case	_	_
16	order	order	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	parataxis	_	_
17	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	16	punct	_	_
18	after	after	ADP	IN	_	20	case	_	_
19	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	20	det	_	_
20	row	row	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	obl	_	_
21	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	26	punct	_	_
22	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	26	nsubj	_	_
23	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	26	cop	_	_
24	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	26	det	_	_
25	real	real	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	26	amod	_	_
26	apology	apology	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	_
27	to	to	ADP	IN	_	29	case	_	_
28	another	another	DET	DT	PronType=Ind	29	det	_	_
29	adult	adult	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	26	nmod	_	_
30	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	32	punct	_	_
31	adults	adult	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	32	nsubj	_	_
32	argue	argue	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	26	parataxis	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=26:parataxis|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:VerbForm=Inf
33	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	34	cc	_	_
34	make	make	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	32	conj	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=32:conj|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:VerbForm=Inf
35	up	up	ADP	RP	_	34	compound:prt	_	_
36	too	too	ADV	RB	_	34	advmod	_	_
37	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	26	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=6:punct
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | a grown up |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **is** *in a quote* | present | a grown up *= up* |  |  |  | after a row | sorry *property* | tree rules |
| 4 | **is** *in a quote* | past | a grown up *= up* |  |  | order |  |  | tree rules |
| 5 | **is a** | present | row | a real apology |  |  |  | to another adult | tree rules |
| 6 | **argue** *speech: disagree* | present | adults |  |  |  |  |  | vn correspond-36.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 7 | **make up** | present | adults *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn comprise-107.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:adult-life:037-sorry-white-lies-and-because-i-said-so.lesson:5`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×3, R6-punct-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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