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title: Grown-ups also live through changes they cannot stop: getting older,… — Being a good grown-up · tree and pragmatics
description: Grown-ups also live through changes they cannot stop: getting older, parents slowing down, friends drifting away and children leaving home. Who acts: Grown ups, things, parents, friends. A sentence of the lesson «Being a good grown-up» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school with its depen
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# Being a good grown-up, sentence 3

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Grown-ups also live through changes they cannot stop: getting older, parents slowing down, friends drifting away and children leaving home.

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**Who acts:** Grown ups, things, parents, friends · **What happens:** grow, live, not stop, get, slow down, drift away · **To what, where:** changes

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Being a good grown-up» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Grown ups, things, parents, friends), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:040-being-a-good-grown-up.lesson:3
# text = Grown-ups also live through changes they cannot stop: getting older, parents slowing down, friends drifting away and children leaving home.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 040-being-a-good-grown-up.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	3	compound	_	_
2	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	3	punct	_	_
3	ups	up	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	nsubj	_	_
4	also	also	ADV	RB	_	5	advmod	_	_
5	live	live	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
6	through	through	ADP	IN	_	7	case	_	_
7	changes	change	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	obl	_	_
8	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	11	nsubj	_	_
9	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	11	aux	_	_
10	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	11	advmod	_	_
11	stop	stop	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	7	acl:relcl	_	_
12	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	13	punct	_	_
13	getting	get	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	5	conj	_	_
14	older	old	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	13	xcomp	_	_
15	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	_	Agree=R2-punct-next|Haiku=13:punct
16	parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	17	nsubj	_	_
17	slowing	slow	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	13	conj	_	_
18	down	down	ADP	RP	_	17	compound:prt	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=17:advmod|HaikuPos=ADV:RB:_
19	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	20	punct	_	_
20	friends	friend	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	21	nsubj	_	_
21	drifting	drift	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	17	conj	_	_
22	away	away	ADV	RB	_	21	advmod	_	_
23	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	24	cc	_	_
24	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	20	conj	_	_
25	leaving	leave	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	20	acl	_	_
26	home	home	ADV	RB	_	25	advmod	_	_
27	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	5	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **live** | present | Grown ups |  |  | changes |  |  | vn exist-47.1-1 «NP V PP.location»: agent=Theme through change=Location |
| 3 | **not** **stop** | can | things *= thing* | changes *not said here* |  |  |  |  | vn stop-55.4-1-1 «NP V NP.eventuality»: agent=Subeventuality change=Eventuality |
| 4 | **get** | gerund | Grown ups *not said here* |  |  |  |  | old *property* | vn comprehend-87.2-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer |
| 5 | **slow down** | gerund | parents |  |  |  |  |  | vn other\_cos-45.4 «NP.patient V»: agent=Patient |
| 6 | **drift away** | gerund | friends and children |  |  |  |  | away *property* | vn run-51.3.2-2 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 7 | **leave** | gerund | friends and children *not said here* |  |  |  |  | home *property* | vn escape-51.1-1-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:adult-life:040-being-a-good-grown-up.lesson:3`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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