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title: Asking for help is a grown-up skill; people think better of someone… — Being a good grown-up · tree and pragmatics
description: Asking for help is a grown-up skill; people think better of someone who asks than of someone who hides a problem until it explodes. Who acts: Asking, people, problem. A sentence of the lesson «Being a good grown-up» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school with its dependency tree and the p
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# Being a good grown-up, sentence 9

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Asking for help is a grown-up skill; people think better of someone who asks than of someone who hides a problem until it explodes.

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**Who acts:** Asking, people, problem · **What happens:** ask, grow, be, think, hide, explode · **To what, where:** grown skill, problem

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Being a good grown-up» of the adult life course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Asking, people, problem), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:adult-life:040-being-a-good-grown-up.lesson:9
# text = Asking for help is a grown-up skill; people think better of someone who asks than of someone who hides a problem until it explodes.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = adult-life
# lesson = 040-being-a-good-grown-up.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R6-punct-agree ×1
1	Asking	ask	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	9	csubj	_	_
2	for	for	ADP	IN	_	3	case	_	_
3	help	help	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	1	obl	_	_
4	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	9	cop	_	_
5	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	9	det	_	_
6	grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	9	amod	_	_
7	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	8	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=6:punct
8	up	up	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	compound	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=9:compound
9	skill	skill	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	_
10	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	12	punct	_	_
11	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	12	nsubj	_	_
12	think	think	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	9	parataxis	_	_
13	better	good	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	12	ccomp	_	_
14	of	of	ADP	IN	_	15	case	_	_
15	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	13	obl	_	_
16	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	17	nsubj	_	_
17	asks	ask	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	15	acl:relcl	_	_
18	than	than	ADP	IN	_	20	case	_	_
19	of	of	ADP	IN	_	20	case	_	_
20	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	17	obl	_	_
21	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	22	nsubj	_	_
22	hides	hide	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	20	acl:relcl	_	_
23	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	24	det	_	_
24	problem	problem	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	22	obj	_	_
25	until	until	SCONJ	IN	_	27	mark	_	_
26	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	27	nsubj	_	_
27	explodes	explode	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	22	advcl	_	_
28	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	9	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: narrate
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **ask** *speech: ask* | gerund |  |  |  |  |  | for help | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 2 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 3 | **is a** | present | Asking | a grown skill |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 4 | **think** *speech: other* | present | people |  |  |  |  |  | vn focus-87.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 5 | **ask** *speech: ask* | present |  |  |  |  |  | than someone | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **hide** | present |  | a problem |  |  |  |  | vn concealment-16-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent problem=Patient |
| 7 | **explode** | present | problem |  |  |  |  |  | vn sound\_emission-43.2 «NP V»: agent=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:adult-life:040-being-a-good-grown-up.lesson:9`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R6-punct-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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