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title: Parents and carers use soft words about children's bad behaviour so… — Soft words for hard things: relations and family… · tree and pragmatics
description: Parents and carers use soft words about children's bad behaviour so they do not sound cross or shame the child in public. Who acts: Parents. A sentence of the lesson «Soft words for hard things: relations and family and children's behaviour» of the euphemisms course of Mova's primary school with its
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# Soft words for hard things: relations and family and children's behaviour, sentence 0

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Parents and carers use soft words about children's bad behaviour so they do not sound cross or shame the child in public.

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**Who acts:** Parents · **What happens:** use, not sound, shame · **To what, where:** soft words, cross, child, public

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Soft words for hard things: relations and family and children's behaviour» of the euphemisms course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Parents), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:euphemisms:014-family-and-behaviour.lesson:0
# text = Parents and carers use soft words about children's bad behaviour so they do not sound cross or shame the child in public.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = euphemisms
# lesson = 014-family-and-behaviour.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×3, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	nsubj	_	_
2	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	3	cc	_	_
3	carers	carer	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	1	conj	_	_
4	use	use	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
5	soft	soft	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	amod	_	_
6	words	word	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	obj	_	_
7	about	about	ADP	IN	_	11	case	_	_
8	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	11	nmod:poss	_	_
9	's	's	PART	POS	_	8	case	_	_
10	bad	bad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	11	amod	_	_
11	behaviour	behaviour	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	nmod	_	_
12	so	so	SCONJ	IN	_	16	mark	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=16:advmod|HaikuPos=ADV:RB:_
13	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	16	nsubj	_	_
14	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	16	aux	_	_
15	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	16	advmod	_	_
16	sound	sound	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	4	advcl	_	_
17	cross	cross	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	obj	_	_
18	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	19	cc	_	_
19	shame	shame	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	16	conj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=17:conj|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
20	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	21	det	_	_
21	child	child	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	19	obj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=16:obj
22	in	in	ADP	IN	_	23	case	_	_
23	public	public	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	19	obl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=16:obl|HaikuPos=ADJ:JJ:Degree=Pos
24	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: narrate
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **use** | present | Parents and carers | soft words |  |  |  | about children's bad behaviour | vn eat-39.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent word=Patient |
| 2 | **not** **sound** | present · do-support | Parents *= parent* | cross |  |  |  |  | vn sound\_emission-43.2 «PP.location V NP»: agent=Location cross=Theme |
| 3 | **shame** | infinitive | Parents *= parent* *not said here* | the child |  | public |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Stimulus child=Experiencer |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:euphemisms:014-family-and-behaviour.lesson:0`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×3, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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