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title: Someone's «ex» is a boyfriend, girlfriend or partner they used to be… — Excuse me, and good manners at the table · tree and pragmatics
description: Someone's «ex» is a boyfriend, girlfriend or partner they used to be with, and «not for little ears» means grown-up talk that is not for children. Who acts: ex, girlfriend, little ears, grown talk. A sentence of the lesson «Excuse me, and good manners at the table» of the everyday course of Mova's p
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# Excuse me, and good manners at the table, sentence 22

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Someone's «ex» is a boyfriend, girlfriend or partner they used to be with, and «not for little ears» means grown-up talk that is not for children.

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**Who acts:** ex, girlfriend, little ears, grown talk · **What happens:** be, use, mean, grow, not be · **To what, where:** boyfriend, grown talk

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Excuse me, and good manners at the table» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (ex, girlfriend, little ears, grown talk), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:127-excuse-me-and-table-manners.lesson:22
# text = Someone's «ex» is a boyfriend, girlfriend or partner they used to be with, and «not for little ears» means grown-up talk that is not for children.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 127-excuse-me-and-table-manners.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2, R8-pos-agree ×1
1	Someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	4	nmod:poss	_	_
2	's	's	PART	POS	_	1	case	_	_
3	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	4	punct	_	_
4	ex	ex	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	nsubj	_	_
5	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	4	punct	_	_
6	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	cop	_	_
7	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	8	det	_	_
8	boyfriend	boyfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	_
9	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	10	punct	_	_
10	girlfriend	girlfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	conj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=8:appos
11	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	12	cc	_	_
12	partner	partner	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	conj	_	_
13	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	14	nsubj	_	_
14	used	use	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	8	acl:relcl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=12:acl:relcl
15	to	to	PART	TO	_	16	mark	_	_
16	be	be	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	14	xcomp	_	_
17	with	with	ADP	IN	_	16	obl	_	_
18	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	26	punct	_	_
19	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	26	cc	_	_
20	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	24	punct	_	_
21	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	24	advmod	_	_
22	for	for	ADP	IN	_	24	case	_	_
23	little	little	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	24	amod	_	_
24	ears	ear	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	26	nsubj	_	_
25	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	24	punct	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=24:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
26	means	mean	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	conj	_	_
27	grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	30	amod	_	_
28	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	29	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=27:punct
29	up	up	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	compound	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=30:compound
30	talk	talk	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	26	obj	_	_
31	that	that	PRON	WDT	PronType=Rel	35	nsubj	_	_
32	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	35	cop	_	_
33	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	35	advmod	_	_
34	for	for	ADP	IN	_	35	case	_	_
35	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	30	acl:relcl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=30:nmod
36	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	8	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is a** | present | Someone's ex | a boyfriend and girlfriend or partner |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 2 | **use** | past | girlfriend | a boyfriend and girlfriend or partner *not said here* |  |  |  |  | vn use-105.1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Agent boyfriend=Theme clause=Eventuality |
| 3 | **be** | to-infinitive | girlfriend *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn exist-47.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 4 | **mean** | present | little ears | grown talk |  |  |  |  | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent talk=Topic |
| 5 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 6 | **not** **is** | present | grown talk |  |  |  |  | for children | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:127-excuse-me-and-table-manners.lesson:22`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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