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title: When grown-ups call someone a «friend» in a special way, or say two… — White lies and kind silence · tree and pragmatics
description: When grown-ups call someone a «friend» in a special way, or say two people are «more than friends», they usually mean a boyfriend or girlfriend, a couple; that is their private business. Who acts: grown ups, two people, people, that. A sentence of the lesson «White lies and kind silence» of the ever
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# White lies and kind silence, sentence 21

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When grown-ups call someone a «friend» in a special way, or say two people are «more than friends», they usually mean a boyfriend or girlfriend, a couple; that is their private business.

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**Who acts:** grown ups, two people, people, that · **What happens:** call, say, be, mean · **To what, where:** someone, special way, friends, boyfriend, private business · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «White lies and kind silence» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (grown ups, two people, people, that), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence.lesson:21
# text = When grown-ups call someone a «friend» in a special way, or say two people are «more than friends», they usually mean a boyfriend or girlfriend, a couple; that is their private business.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 196-white-lies-and-kind-silence.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	When	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	2	advmod	_	_
2	grown	grow	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	amod	_	_
3	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	4	punct	_	_
4	ups	up	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	nsubj	_	_
5	call	call	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
6	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	5	obj	_	_
7	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	9	det	_	_
8	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	9	punct	_	_
9	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	xcomp	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=5:obj
10	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	9	punct	_	_
11	in	in	ADP	IN	_	14	case	_	_
12	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	14	det	_	_
13	special	special	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	14	amod	_	_
14	way	way	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	obl	_	_
15	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	_	_
16	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	17	cc	_	_
17	say	say	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	5	conj	_	_
18	two	two	NUM	CD	NumForm=Word|NumType=Card	19	nummod	_	_
19	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	nsubj	_	_
20	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	cop	_	_
21	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	22	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=24:punct
22	more	more	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp|ExtPos=ADV	24	advmod	_	_
23	than	than	ADP	IN	_	22	fixed	_	_
24	friends	friend	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	17	ccomp	_	_
25	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	24	punct	_	_
26	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	29	punct	_	_
27	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	29	nsubj	_	_
28	usually	usually	ADV	RB	_	29	advmod	_	_
29	mean	mean	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	parataxis	_	_
30	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	31	det	_	_
31	boyfriend	boyfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	29	obj	_	_
32	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	33	cc	_	_
33	girlfriend	girlfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	31	conj	_	_
34	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	36	punct	_	_
35	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	36	det	_	_
36	couple	couple	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	31	conj	_	_
37	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	42	punct	_	_
38	that	that	PRON	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	42	nsubj	_	_
39	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	42	cop	_	_
40	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	42	nmod:poss	_	_
41	private	private	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	42	amod	_	_
42	business	business	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	24	conj	_	_
43	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	5	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **call** *speech: assert* | infinitive | grown ups |  | someone | a special way |  |  | vn initiate\_communication-37.4.2-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent someone=Recipient |
| 2 | **say** *speech: assert* | infinitive | grown ups *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **is a** *in a quote* | present | two people | friends and people's private business |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 4 | **mean** | present | people | a boyfriend or girlfriend and a couple |  |  |  | usually *property* | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent boyfriend=Topic |
| 5 | **is a** | present | that | people's private business |  |  |  |  | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:196-white-lies-and-kind-silence.lesson:21`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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