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title: When parents divorce, a child should not be put in the middle; you c… — Family changes and grief · tree and pragmatics
description: When parents divorce, a child should not be put in the middle; you can say you love both and do not want to choose. Who acts: parents, you. A sentence of the lesson «Family changes and grief» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school with its dependency tree and the pragmatics of every clause.
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# Family changes and grief, sentence 2

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When parents divorce, a child should not be put in the middle; you can say you love both and do not want to choose.

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**Who acts:** parents, you · **What happens:** divorce, not put, say, love, not want, choose · **To what, where:** child, middle, both · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Family changes and grief» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (parents, you), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:214-family-changes-and-grief.lesson:2
# text = When parents divorce, a child should not be put in the middle; you can say you love both and do not want to choose.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 214-family-changes-and-grief.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×3
1	When	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	3	advmod	_	_
2	parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	3	nsubj	_	_
3	divorce	divorce	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	10	advcl	_	_
4	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	3	punct	_	_
5	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	6	det	_	_
6	child	child	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	nsubj:pass	_	_
7	should	should	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	10	aux	_	_
8	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	10	advmod	_	_
9	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	10	aux:pass	_	_
10	put	put	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	0	root	_	_
11	in	in	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
12	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	13	det	_	_
13	middle	middle	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	obl	_	_
14	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	_	_
15	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	17	nsubj	_	_
16	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	17	aux	_	_
17	say	say	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	10	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=10:conj
18	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	19	nsubj	_	_
19	love	love	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	17	ccomp	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=17:parataxis
20	both	both	DET	DT	PronType=Tot	19	obj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=19:advmod|HaikuPos=ADV:RB:_
21	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	24	cc	_	_
22	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	aux	_	_
23	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	24	advmod	_	_
24	want	want	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	19	conj	_	_
25	to	to	PART	TO	_	26	mark	_	_
26	choose	choose	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	24	xcomp	_	_
27	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	10	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: suggest
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: changed act=suggest

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **divorce** | present | parents |  |  |  |  |  | vn marry-36.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 2 | **not** **put** | should · passive |  | a child |  | the middle |  |  | vn put-9.1-2 «NP V NP PP.destination»: subject=Theme in middle=Destination |
| 3 | **say** *speech: assert* | can | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 4 | **love** | present | you | both |  |  |  |  | vn admire-31.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer both=Stimulus |
| 5 | **not** **want** | present · do-support | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn want-32.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Pivot clause=Theme |
| 6 | **choose** *not said to happen* | to-infinitive | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn get-13.5.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:214-family-changes-and-grief.lesson:2`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×3. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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