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title: Grown-ups' talk you may overhear is private: «his dad's left» means… — Safe and kind in parks and playgrounds · tree and pragmatics
description: Grown-ups' talk you may overhear is private: «his dad's left» means the dad no longer lives with the family, so be kind and do not repeat it; and teasing that two friends are «married» or a couple is just teasing, which you can ignore. Who acts: you, talk, dad, couple. A sentence of the lesson «Safe
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# Safe and kind in parks and playgrounds, sentence 25

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Grown-ups' talk you may overhear is private: «his dad's left» means the dad no longer lives with the family, so be kind and do not repeat it; and teasing that two friends are «married» or a couple is just teasing, which you can ignore.

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**Who acts:** you, talk, dad, couple, Grown ups · **What happens:** grow, overhear, be, leave, mean, live · **To what, where:** talk, two friends · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Safe and kind in parks and playgrounds» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (you, talk, dad, couple), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:228-parks-and-playgrounds.lesson:25
# text = Grown-ups' talk you may overhear is private: «his dad's left» means the dad no longer lives with the family, so be kind and do not repeat it; and teasing that two friends are «married» or a couple is just teasing, which you can ignore.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 228-parks-and-playgrounds.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×2, R7-rel-agree ×3, R8-pos-agree ×3
1	Grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	3	amod	_	_
2	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	1	punct	_	_
3	ups	up	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	nmod:poss	_	_
4	'	's	PART	POS	_	3	case	_	_
5	talk	talk	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	nsubj	_	_
6	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	8	nsubj	_	_
7	may	may	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	8	aux	_	_
8	overhear	overhear	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	5	acl:relcl	_	_
9	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	10	cop	_	_
10	private	private	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	0	root	_	_
11	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	16	punct	_	_
12	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	16	punct	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=16:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
13	his	his	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Gender=Masc|Number=Sing|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	14	nmod:poss	_	_
14	dad	dad	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	nmod:poss	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=16:nsubj
15	's	's	PART	POS	_	14	case	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=16:aux|HaikuPos=AUX:VBZ:Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
16	left	leave	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	10	parataxis	_	_
17	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	16	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=18:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
18	means	mean	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	16	parataxis	_	_
19	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	20	det	_	_
20	dad	dad	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	nsubj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=18:obj
21	no	no	ADV	RB	_	22	advmod	_	_
22	longer	long	ADV	RBR	Degree=Cmp	23	advmod	_	_
23	lives	live	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	18	ccomp	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=18:conj
24	with	with	ADP	IN	_	26	case	_	_
25	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	26	det	_	_
26	family	family	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	obl	_	_
27	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	30	punct	_	_
28	so	so	ADV	RB	_	30	advmod	_	_
29	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	30	cop	_	_
30	kind	kind	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	16	conj	_	_
31	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	34	cc	_	_
32	do	do	AUX	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	34	aux	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=34:aux|HaikuPos=AUX:VBP:Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin
33	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	34	advmod	_	_
34	repeat	repeat	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	30	conj	_	_
35	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	34	obj	_	_
36	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	38	punct	_	_
37	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	38	cc	_	_
38	teasing	tease	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	10	parataxis	_	_
39	that	that	SCONJ	IN	_	44	mark	_	_
40	two	two	NUM	CD	NumForm=Word|NumType=Card	41	nummod	_	_
41	friends	friend	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	44	nsubj:pass	_	_
42	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	44	aux:pass	_	_
43	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	44	punct	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=44:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
44	married	marry	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	38	ccomp	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=38:advcl
45	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	44	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=51:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
46	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	51	cc	_	_
47	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	48	det	_	_
48	couple	couple	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	51	nsubj	_	_
49	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	51	aux	_	_
50	just	just	ADV	RB	_	51	advmod	_	_
51	teasing	tease	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	44	conj	_	_
52	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	56	punct	_	_
53	which	which	PRON	WDT	PronType=Rel	56	obj	_	_
54	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	56	nsubj	_	_
55	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	56	aux	_	_
56	ignore	ignore	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	51	acl:relcl	_	_
57	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	10	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: request
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **overhear** | may | you | Grown ups's talk *not said here* |  |  |  |  | vn sight-30.2 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer talk=Stimulus |
| 3 | **is** | present | Grown ups's talk |  |  |  |  | private *property* | tree rules |
| 4 | **leave** *in a quote* | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 5 | **mean** | present |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 6 | **live** | present | the dad |  |  |  |  | with the family; long *property* | vn lodge-46 «NP V PP.location»: agent=Theme with family=Location |
| 7 | **is** | infinitive |  |  |  |  |  | kind *property* | tree rules |
| 8 | **not** **repeat** | infinitive · do-support |  | talk |  |  |  |  | vn begin-55.1-1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent it=Eventuality |
| 9 | **tease** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 10 | **marry** *in a quote* | present · passive |  | two friends |  |  |  |  | vn amalgamate-22.2-3-1-1 «NP V NP»: subject=Patient |
| 11 | **tease** | present · progressive | a couple |  |  |  |  |  | vn ferret-35.6 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 12 | **ignore** | can | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn neglect-75.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent which=Theme |
| 13 | **talk** |  | Grown ups |  |  |  |  |  | nom talk «communication intransitive»: poss=agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:228-parks-and-playgrounds.lesson:25`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×2, R7-rel-agree ×3, R8-pos-agree ×3. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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