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title: Asking someone about their boyfriend or girlfriend as a dare is rude… — Peer pressure, happy secrets and being trusted · tree and pragmatics
description: Asking someone about their boyfriend or girlfriend as a dare is rude; people's private lives are not a joke. Who acts: Asking, private lives. A sentence of the lesson «Peer pressure, happy secrets and being trusted» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school with its dependency tree and the pra
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# Peer pressure, happy secrets and being trusted, sentence 16

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Asking someone about their boyfriend or girlfriend as a dare is rude; people's private lives are not a joke.

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**Who acts:** Asking, private lives · **What happens:** ask, be, not be · **To what, where:** someone, joke

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Peer pressure, happy secrets and being trusted» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Asking, private lives), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:315-dares-surprises-and-being-trusted.lesson:16
# text = Asking someone about their boyfriend or girlfriend as a dare is rude; people's private lives are not a joke.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 315-dares-surprises-and-being-trusted.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Asking	ask	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	12	csubj	_	_
2	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	1	obj	_	_
3	about	about	ADP	IN	_	5	case	_	_
4	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	5	nmod:poss	_	_
5	boyfriend	boyfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	1	obl	_	_
6	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	7	cc	_	_
7	girlfriend	girlfriend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	conj	_	_
8	as	as	ADP	IN	_	10	case	_	_
9	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	10	det	_	_
10	dare	dare	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	1	obl	_	_
11	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	12	cop	_	_
12	rude	rude	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	0	root	_	_
13	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	21	punct	_	Agree=R2-punct-next|Haiku=12:punct
14	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	17	nmod:poss	_	_
15	's	's	PART	POS	_	14	case	_	_
16	private	private	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	17	amod	_	_
17	lives	life	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	21	nsubj	_	_
18	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	21	cop	_	_
19	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	21	advmod	_	_
20	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	21	det	_	_
21	joke	joke	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	12	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=12:conj
22	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	12	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **ask** *speech: ask* | gerund |  |  | someone |  |  | about secrets's boyfriend or girlfriend; as a dare | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V NP PP.topic»: agent=Agent someone=Recipient about boyfriend=Topic |
| 2 | **is** | present | Asking |  |  |  |  | rude *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **not** **is a** | present | people's private lives | a joke |  |  |  |  | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:315-dares-surprises-and-being-trusted.lesson:16`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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