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title: When a friend tells you something sad about their family, listen kin… — Interrupting, boasting, your own story, losing a… · tree and pragmatics
description: When a friend tells you something sad about their family, listen kindly, keep it private and remind them they can talk to a trusted adult. Who acts: friend, you, friends. A sentence of the lesson «Interrupting, boasting, your own story, losing a pet or a person, bullying, saying no, comparing yourse
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# Interrupting, boasting, your own story, losing a pet or a person, bullying, saying no, comparing yourself online, pocket money and curiosity, sentence 26

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When a friend tells you something sad about their family, listen kindly, keep it private and remind them they can talk to a trusted adult.

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**Who acts:** friend, you, friends · **What happens:** tell, listen, keep, remind, talk · **To what, where:** something, you, money, friends · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Interrupting, boasting, your own story, losing a pet or a person, bullying, saying no, comparing yourself online, pocket money and curiosity» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (friend, you, friends), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:320-interrupting-boasting-loss-bullying-saying-no-and-pocket-money.lesson:26
# text = When a friend tells you something sad about their family, listen kindly, keep it private and remind them they can talk to a trusted adult.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 320-interrupting-boasting-loss-bullying-saying-no-and-pocket-money.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change
1	When	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	4	advmod	_	_
2	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	3	det	_	_
3	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	nsubj	_	_
4	tells	tell	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	12	advcl	_	_
5	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs	4	iobj	_	_
6	something	something	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	4	obj	_	_
7	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	amod	_	_
8	about	about	ADP	IN	_	10	case	_	_
9	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	10	nmod:poss	_	_
10	family	family	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	nmod	_	_
11	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	12	punct	_	_
12	listen	listen	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
13	kindly	kindly	ADV	RB	_	12	advmod	_	_
14	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	15	punct	_	_
15	keep	keep	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	12	conj	_	_
16	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	15	obj	_	_
17	private	private	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	15	xcomp	_	_
18	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	19	cc	_	_
19	remind	remind	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	12	conj	_	_
20	them	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	19	iobj	_	_
21	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	23	nsubj	_	_
22	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	23	aux	_	_
23	talk	talk	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	19	ccomp	_	_
24	to	to	ADP	IN	_	27	case	_	_
25	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	27	det	_	_
26	trusted	trusted	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	27	amod	_	_
27	adult	adult	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	obl	_	_
28	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	12	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **tell** *speech: assert* | present | a friend | something | you |  |  | about friends's family | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP-Dative NP»: agent=Agent you=Recipient something=Topic |
| 2 | **listen** | imperative | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  | kindly *property* | vn peer-30.3 «NP V PP.theme»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **keep** | infinitive | you *not said here* | money |  |  |  | private *property* | vn keep-15.2 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent it=Theme |
| 4 | **remind** *speech: other* | infinitive | you *not said here* |  | friends *= friend* |  |  |  | vn tell-37.2 «NP V NP.recipient S»: agent=Agent they=Recipient clause=Topic |
| 5 | **talk** | can | friends *= friend* |  |  |  |  | to a trusted adult | vn talk-37.5 «NP V PP.co-agent»: agent=Agent to adult=Co-Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:320-interrupting-boasting-loss-bullying-saying-no-and-pocket-money.lesson:26`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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