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title: Connor's mum says, «A friend who's embarrassed to be seen with you i… — Nice alone, mean in a group · tree and pragmatics
description: Connor's mum says, «A friend who's embarrassed to be seen with you isn't the friend you need, love.» Maddie notices her friend Ellie ignores her whenever the netball team's around; she tells Ellie, and Ellie, who hadn't noticed, says sorry and starts saying hi even with the team. Who acts: mum, frie
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# Nice alone, mean in a group, sentence 21

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Connor's mum says, «A friend who's embarrassed to be seen with you isn't the friend you need, love.» Maddie notices her friend Ellie ignores her whenever the netball team's around; she tells Ellie, and Ellie, who hadn't noticed, says sorry and starts saying hi even with the team.

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**Who acts:** mum, friend, you, Maddie, netball team, Ellie · **What happens:** say, be, see, not be, need, love · **To what, where:** friend, Maddie, Ellie · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Nice alone, mean in a group» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (mum, friend, you, Maddie), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:468-nice-alone-mean-in-a-group.lesson:21
# text = Connor's mum says, «A friend who's embarrassed to be seen with you isn't the friend you need, love.» Maddie notices her friend Ellie ignores her whenever the netball team's around; she tells Ellie, and Ellie, who hadn't noticed, says sorry and starts saying hi even with the team.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 468-nice-alone-mean-in-a-group.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×3
1	Connor	Connor	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	3	nmod:poss	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=3:nmod:poss|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
2	's	's	PART	POS	_	1	case	_	_
3	mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	nsubj	_	_
4	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
5	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	4	punct	_	_
6	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	4	punct	_	_
7	A	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	8	det	_	_
8	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	20	nsubj	_	_
9	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	11	nsubj	_	_
10	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	cop	_	_
11	embarrassed	embarrassed	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	8	acl:relcl	_	_
12	to	to	PART	TO	_	14	mark	_	_
13	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	14	aux:pass	_	_
14	seen	see	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	11	xcomp	_	_
15	with	with	ADP	IN	_	16	case	_	_
16	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs	14	obl	_	_
17	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	20	cop	_	_
18	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	20	advmod	_	_
19	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	20	det	_	_
20	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	ccomp	_	_
21	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	22	nsubj	_	_
22	need	need	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	20	acl:relcl	_	_
23	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
24	love	love	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	20	parataxis	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=20:parataxis|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
25	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	20	punct	_	_
26	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	4	punct	_	_
27	Maddie	Maddie	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	28	nsubj	_	_
28	notices	notice	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	parataxis	_	_
29	her	her	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	30	nmod:poss	_	_
30	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	32	nsubj	_	_
31	Ellie	Ellie	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	30	appos	_	_
32	ignores	ignore	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	28	ccomp	_	_
33	her	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	32	obj	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=32:obj|HaikuPos=PRON:PRP$:Case=Gen|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs
34	whenever	whenever	SCONJ	WRB	_	39	mark	_	_
35	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	37	det	_	_
36	netball	netball	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	37	compound	_	_
37	team	team	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	39	nsubj	_	_
38	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	39	cop	_	_
39	around	around	ADV	RB	_	32	advcl	_	_
40	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	42	punct	_	_
41	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	42	nsubj	_	_
42	tells	tell	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	28	conj	_	_
43	Ellie	Ellie	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	42	obj	_	_
44	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	46	punct	_	_
45	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	46	cc	_	_
46	Ellie	Ellie	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	43	conj	_	_
47	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	51	punct	_	_
48	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	51	nsubj	_	_
49	had	have	AUX	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	51	aux	_	_
50	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	51	advmod	_	_
51	noticed	notice	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	46	acl:relcl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=43:acl:relcl
52	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	53	punct	_	_
53	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	42	conj	_	_
54	sorry	sorry	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	53	xcomp	_	_
55	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	56	cc	_	_
56	starts	start	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	53	conj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=42:conj
57	saying	say	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	56	xcomp	_	_
58	hi	hi	INTJ	UH	_	57	discourse	_	_
59	even	even	ADV	RB	_	62	advmod	_	_
60	with	with	ADP	IN	_	62	case	_	_
61	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	62	det	_	_
62	team	team	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	57	obl	_	_
63	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=28:punct
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | Connor's mum |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 2 | **is** *in a quote* | present | a friend |  |  |  |  | embarrassed *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **see** *in a quote* | to-infinitive · passive | a friend *not said here* |  |  |  |  | with you | vn comprehend-87.2-1-1 «NP V» |
| 4 | **not** **is a** *in a quote* | present | a friend | the friend |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 5 | **need** *in a quote* | present | you | the friend *not said here* |  |  |  |  | vn want-32.1-1-1 «NP V NP ADV»: agent=Pivot friend=Theme |
| 6 | **love** *in a quote* | infinitive |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn admire-31.2-1 «NP V S\_INF»: agent=Experiencer |
| 7 | **notice** | present | Maddie |  |  |  |  |  | vn see-30.1-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer clause=Stimulus |
| 8 | **ignore** | present | friend's friend | Maddie |  |  |  |  | vn neglect-75.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent she=Theme |
| 9 | **is** | present | the netball team |  |  |  |  | around *property* | tree rules |
| 10 | **tell** *speech: assert* | present | friend |  | Ellie and Ellie |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent ellie=Recipient |
| 11 | **not** **notice** | past · perfect | Ellie |  |  |  |  |  | vn see-30.1-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer |
| 12 | **say** *speech: apologize* | present | friend *not said here* |  |  |  |  | sorry *property* | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 13 | **start** | present | friend *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn begin-55.1-1-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Agent clause=Eventuality |
| 14 | **say** *speech: assert* | gerund | friend *not said here* |  |  |  |  | with the team | vn pronounce-29.3.1 «NP V NP PP.manner»: agent=Agent with team=Manner |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×3. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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