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title: When parents say they are going through a rough patch, they mean the… — Feelings and calming down · tree and pragmatics
description: When parents say they are going through a rough patch, they mean they are not getting on well; it is not the child's fault, and it is all right to feel sad and to tell a trusted adult. Who acts: parents, patch. A sentence of the lesson «Feelings and calming down» of the everyday course of Mova's pri
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# Feelings and calming down, sentence 22

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When parents say they are going through a rough patch, they mean they are not getting on well; it is not the child's fault, and it is all right to feel sad and to tell a trusted adult.

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**Who acts:** parents, patch · **What happens:** say, go, mean, not get on, not be, be · **To what, where:** rough patch, fault, trusted adult · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Feelings and calming down» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (parents, patch), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:053-feelings-and-calming-down.lesson:22
# text = When parents say they are going through a rough patch, they mean they are not getting on well; it is not the child's fault, and it is all right to feel sad and to tell a trusted adult.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 053-feelings-and-calming-down.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2
1	When	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	3	mark	_	_
2	parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	3	nsubj	_	_
3	say	say	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	13	advcl	_	_
4	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	6	nsubj	_	_
5	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	6	aux	_	_
6	going	go	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	3	ccomp	_	_
7	through	through	ADP	IN	_	10	case	_	_
8	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	10	det	_	_
9	rough	rough	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	10	amod	_	_
10	patch	patch	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	obl	_	_
11	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	3	punct	_	_
12	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	13	nsubj	_	_
13	mean	mean	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	27	advcl	_	_
14	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	17	nsubj	_	_
15	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	17	aux	_	_
16	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	17	advmod	_	_
17	getting	get	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	13	ccomp	_	_
18	on	on	ADP	RP	_	17	compound:prt	_	_
19	well	well	ADV	RB	Degree=Pos	17	advmod	_	_
20	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	27	punct	_	_
21	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	27	nsubj	_	_
22	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	27	cop	_	_
23	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	27	advmod	_	_
24	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	25	det	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=27:det
25	child	child	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	nmod:poss	_	_
26	's	's	PART	POS	_	25	case	_	_
27	fault	fault	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	_
28	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	33	punct	_	_
29	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	33	cc	_	_
30	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	33	expl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=33:nsubj
31	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	33	cop	_	_
32	all	all	ADV	RB	_	33	advmod	_	_
33	right	right	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	27	parataxis	_	_
34	to	to	PART	TO	_	35	mark	_	_
35	feel	feel	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	33	csubj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=33:xcomp
36	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	35	xcomp	_	_
37	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	39	cc	_	_
38	to	to	PART	TO	_	39	mark	_	_
39	tell	tell	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	35	conj	_	_
40	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	42	det	_	_
41	trusted	trust	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	42	amod	_	_
42	adult	adult	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	39	obj	_	_
43	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	13	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=27:punct
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: narrate
- voice: narrator
- polarity: pos
- teacher: changed polarity=pos

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | parents |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 2 | **go** | present · progressive | parents *= parent* |  |  | a rough patch |  |  | vn escape-51.1-1 «NP V PP.initial\_location»: agent=Theme through patch=Initial\_Location |
| 3 | **mean** | present | parents *= parent* |  |  |  |  |  | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 4 | **not** **get on** | present · progressive | parents *= parent* |  |  |  |  | well *property* | vn comprehend-87.2-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer |
| 5 | **not** **is a** | present | patch | the child's fault |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 6 | **is** | present |  |  |  |  |  | all, right *property* | tree rules |
| 7 | **feel** | to-infinitive |  |  |  |  |  | sad *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus |
| 8 | **tell** *speech: assert* | to-infinitive |  |  | a trusted adult |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent adult=Recipient |
| 9 | **trust** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn conjecture-29.5-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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