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title: Then use words, not hands: say how you feel with an «I» sentence («I… — Solving disagreements calmly · tree and pragmatics
description: Then use words, not hands: say how you feel with an «I» sentence («I feel upset when you take my pens without asking»), and then listen to the other side without interrupting. Who acts: you, I. A sentence of the lesson «Solving disagreements calmly» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school wi
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# Solving disagreements calmly, sentence 2

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Then use words, not hands: say how you feel with an «I» sentence («I feel upset when you take my pens without asking»), and then listen to the other side without interrupting.

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**Who acts:** you, I · **What happens:** use, say, feel, take, ask, listen · **To what, where:** words, pens · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Solving disagreements calmly» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (you, I), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:054-solving-disagreements-calmly.lesson:2
# text = Then use words, not hands: say how you feel with an «I» sentence («I feel upset when you take my pens without asking»), and then listen to the other side without interrupting.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 054-solving-disagreements-calmly.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Then	then	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	2	advmod	_	_
2	use	use	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
3	words	word	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	2	obj	_	_
4	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	6	punct	_	_
5	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	6	advmod	_	_
6	hands	hand	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	3	conj	_	_
7	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	8	punct	_	_
8	say	say	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	2	parataxis	_	_
9	how	how	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	11	advmod	_	_
10	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	11	nsubj	_	_
11	feel	feel	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	ccomp	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=8:advcl
12	with	with	ADP	IN	_	17	case	_	_
13	an	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	17	det	_	_
14	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	15	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=17:punct
15	I	I	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	17	compound	_	_
16	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	15	punct	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=17:aux
17	sentence	sentence	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	obl	_	_
18	(	(	PUNCT	-LRB-	_	21	punct	_	_
19	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	21	punct	_	_
20	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	21	nsubj	_	_
21	feel	feel	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	advcl	_	_
22	upset	upset	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	21	xcomp	_	_
23	when	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	25	advmod	_	_
24	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	25	nsubj	_	_
25	take	take	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	21	advcl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=22:advcl
26	my	my	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Sing|Person=1|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	27	nmod:poss	_	_
27	pens	pen	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	25	obj	_	_
28	without	without	SCONJ	IN	_	29	mark	_	_
29	asking	ask	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	25	advcl	_	_
30	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	21	punct	_	_
31	)	)	PUNCT	-RRB-	_	21	punct	_	_
32	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	35	punct	_	_
33	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	35	cc	_	_
34	then	then	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	35	advmod	_	_
35	listen	listen	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	8	parataxis	_	_
36	to	to	ADP	IN	_	39	case	_	_
37	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	39	det	_	_
38	other	other	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	39	amod	_	_
39	side	side	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	35	obl	_	_
40	without	without	SCONJ	IN	_	41	mark	_	_
41	interrupting	interrupt	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	35	advcl	_	_
42	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	2	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **use** | imperative | you *not said here* | words and hands |  |  | then |  | vn eat-39.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent word=Patient |
| 2 | **say** *speech: assert* | infinitive |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V how S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 3 | **feel** | present | you |  |  |  |  | with a I sentence | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V PP.attribute»: agent=Stimulus |
| 4 | **feel** *in a quote* | present | I |  |  |  |  | upset *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus |
| 5 | **take** *in a quote* | present | you | my pens |  |  |  |  | vn bring-11.3 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent pen=Theme |
| 6 | **ask** *speech: ask* *in a quote* | gerund | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 7 | **listen** | infinitive |  |  |  |  | then | to the other side | vn peer-30.3 «NP V PP.theme»: agent=Agent to side=Theme |
| 8 | **interrupt** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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