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title: Real friends are kind to you all the time, not only when nobody else… — Friendship troubles, being left out and bullying · tree and pragmatics
description: Real friends are kind to you all the time, not only when nobody else is around; most friendships survive arguments if both cool down, talk and say sorry, and you do not have to stay close to someone who treats you badly. Who acts: Real friends, nobody, most friendships, both. A sentence of the lesso
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# Friendship troubles, being left out and bullying, sentence 0

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Real friends are kind to you all the time, not only when nobody else is around; most friendships survive arguments if both cool down, talk and say sorry, and you do not have to stay close to someone who treats you badly.

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**Who acts:** Real friends, nobody, most friendships, both, you · **What happens:** be, not be, survive, cool down, talk, say · **To what, where:** you, arguments, sorry · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Friendship troubles, being left out and bullying» of the everyday course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Real friends, nobody, most friendships, both), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:everyday:098-friendship-being-left-out-and-bullying.lesson:0
# text = Real friends are kind to you all the time, not only when nobody else is around; most friendships survive arguments if both cool down, talk and say sorry, and you do not have to stay close to someone who treats you badly.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = everyday
# lesson = 098-friendship-being-left-out-and-bullying.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R8-pos-agree ×2
1	Real	real	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	2	amod	_	_
2	friends	friend	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	nsubj	_	_
3	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	cop	_	_
4	kind	kind	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	0	root	_	_
5	to	to	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
6	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	4	obl	_	_
7	all	all	DET	PDT	PronType=Tot	9	det:predet	_	_
8	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	9	det	_	_
9	time	time	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	obl:unmarked	_	_
10	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	_	_
11	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	17	advmod	_	_
12	only	only	ADV	RB	_	17	advmod	_	_
13	when	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	17	mark	_	_
14	nobody	nobody	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Neg	17	nsubj	_	_
15	else	else	ADV	RB	_	14	advmod	_	_
16	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	17	cop	_	_
17	around	around	ADV	RB	_	9	advcl	_	_
18	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	21	punct	_	_
19	most	most	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	20	amod	_	_
20	friendships	friendship	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	21	nsubj	_	_
21	survive	survive	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	conj	_	_
22	arguments	argument	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	21	obj	_	_
23	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	25	mark	_	_
24	both	both	DET	DT	PronType=Tot	25	nsubj	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=25:nsubj|HaikuPos=PRON:DT:PronType=Tot
25	cool	cool	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	21	advcl	_	_
26	down	down	ADP	RP	_	25	compound:prt	_	_
27	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	28	punct	_	_
28	talk	talk	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	25	conj	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=25:conj|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:VerbForm=Inf
29	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	30	cc	_	_
30	say	say	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	28	conj	_	_
31	sorry	sorry	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	30	obj	_	_
32	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	37	punct	_	_
33	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	37	cc	_	_
34	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	37	nsubj	_	_
35	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	37	aux	_	_
36	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	37	advmod	_	_
37	have	have	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	21	conj	_	_
38	to	to	PART	TO	_	39	mark	_	_
39	stay	stay	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	37	xcomp	_	_
40	close	close	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	39	advmod	_	_
41	to	to	ADP	IN	_	42	case	_	_
42	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	40	obl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=39:obl
43	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	44	nsubj	_	_
44	treats	treat	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	42	acl:relcl	_	_
45	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs	44	obj	_	_
46	badly	badly	ADV	RB	Degree=Pos	44	advmod	_	_
47	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
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## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: pos
- teacher: changed polarity=pos

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is** | present | Real friends |  | you |  | time | kind *property* | tree rules |
| 2 | **not** **is** | present | nobody |  |  |  |  | around *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **survive** | present | most friendships | arguments |  |  |  |  | vn exist-47.1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Theme argument=Circumstance |
| 4 | **cool down** *a condition, not said to happen* | present | both |  |  |  |  |  | vn other\_cos-45.4 «NP.patient V»: agent=Patient |
| 5 | **talk** | present | both *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn talk-37.5 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **say** *speech: assert* | infinitive | both *not said here* | sorry |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V NP.topic»: agent=Agent sorry=Topic |
| 7 | **not** **have** | present · do-support | you |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 8 | **stay** | to-infinitive | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn exist-47.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 9 | **treat** | present |  |  | you |  |  | badly *property* | vn equip-13.4.2-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent you=Recipient |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:everyday:098-friendship-being-left-out-and-bullying.lesson:0`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R8-pos-agree ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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