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title: When nobody mentions a death, the grieving person can feel invisible… — When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of… · tree and pragmatics
description: When nobody mentions a death, the grieving person can feel invisible, even though most people do care; many grieving people want others to say the dead person's name. Who acts: nobody, grieving person, most people, many grieving people. A sentence of the lesson «When someone dies: guilt, numbness an
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# When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief, sentence 14

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When nobody mentions a death, the grieving person can feel invisible, even though most people do care; many grieving people want others to say the dead person's name.

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**Who acts:** nobody, grieving person, most people, many grieving people, others, dead person · **What happens:** mention, grieve, feel, care, want, say · **To what, where:** death, others, name · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (nobody, grieving person, most people, many grieving people), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson:14
# text = When nobody mentions a death, the grieving person can feel invisible, even though most people do care; many grieving people want others to say the dead person's name.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1
1	When	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	3	mark	_	_
2	nobody	nobody	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Neg	3	nsubj	_	_
3	mentions	mention	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	advcl	_	_
4	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	5	det	_	_
5	death	death	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	obj	_	_
6	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	3	punct	_	_
7	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	9	det	_	_
8	grieving	grieve	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	9	amod	_	_
9	person	person	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	nsubj	_	_
10	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	11	aux	_	_
11	feel	feel	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
12	invisible	invisible	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	11	xcomp	_	_
13	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	19	punct	_	_
14	even	even	ADV	RB	_	19	advmod	_	_
15	though	though	SCONJ	IN	_	19	mark	_	_
16	most	most	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	17	amod	_	_
17	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	19	nsubj	_	_
18	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	19	aux	_	_
19	care	care	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	11	advcl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=11:conj
20	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
21	many	many	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	23	amod	_	_
22	grieving	grieve	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	23	amod	_	_
23	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	nsubj	_	_
24	want	want	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	parataxis	_	_
25	others	other	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	24	obj	_	_
26	to	to	PART	TO	_	27	mark	_	_
27	say	say	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	24	xcomp	_	_
28	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	30	det	_	_
29	dead	dead	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	30	amod	_	_
30	person	person	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	32	nmod:poss	_	_
31	's	's	PART	POS	_	30	case	_	_
32	name	name	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	obj	_	_
33	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	11	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: neg
- teacher: changed act=assert

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **mention** *speech: other* | present | nobody | a death |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V NP.topic»: agent=Agent death=Topic |
| 2 | **grieve** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |
| 3 | **feel** | can | the grieving person |  |  |  |  | invisible *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus |
| 4 | **care** | present · do-support | most people |  |  |  |  |  | vn care-88.1-1 «NP V»: agent=Experiencer |
| 5 | **grieve** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |
| 6 | **want** | present | many grieving people | others |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 7 | **say** *speech: assert* *not said to happen* | to-infinitive | others *not said here* | the dead person's name |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V NP.topic»: agent=Agent name=Topic |
| 8 | **name** |  | the dead person |  |  |  |  |  | nom name «communication transitive»: poss=agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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