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title: How sad you feel about a loss depends on how much you cared, not on… — When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of… · tree and pragmatics
description: How sad you feel about a loss depends on how much you cared, not on how big the animal was; laughing at someone's sadness makes them hide it. Who acts: you, animal, laughing, people. A sentence of the lesson «When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief» of the reflection course of Mova's p
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# When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief, sentence 15

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How sad you feel about a loss depends on how much you cared, not on how big the animal was; laughing at someone's sadness makes them hide it.

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**Who acts:** you, animal, laughing, people · **What happens:** feel, depend, care, not be, laugh, make · **To what, where:** much, sadness, people, animal

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (you, animal, laughing, people), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson:15
# text = How sad you feel about a loss depends on how much you cared, not on how big the animal was; laughing at someone's sadness makes them hide it.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	How	how	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	2	advmod	_	_
2	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	xcomp	_	_
3	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	4	nsubj	_	_
4	feel	feel	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	csubj	_	_
5	about	about	ADP	IN	_	7	case	_	_
6	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	7	det	_	_
7	loss	loss	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	obl	_	_
8	depends	depend	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
9	on	on	SCONJ	IN	_	13	mark	_	_
10	how	how	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	11	advmod	_	_
11	much	much	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	13	obj	_	_
12	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	13	nsubj	_	_
13	cared	care	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	8	advcl	_	_
14	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	18	punct	_	_
15	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	18	advmod	_	_
16	on	on	ADP	IN	_	18	case	_	_
17	how	how	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	18	advmod	_	_
18	big	big	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	13	conj	_	_
19	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	20	det	_	_
20	animal	animal	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	18	nsubj	_	_
21	was	be	AUX	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	18	cop	_	_
22	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	28	punct	_	Agree=R2-punct-next|Haiku=8:punct
23	laughing	laugh	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	28	csubj	_	_
24	at	at	ADP	IN	_	27	case	_	_
25	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	27	nmod:poss	_	_
26	's	's	PART	POS	_	25	case	_	_
27	sadness	sadness	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	obl	_	_
28	makes	make	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=8:conj
29	them	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	28	obj	_	_
30	hide	hide	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	28	xcomp	_	_
31	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	30	obj	_	_
32	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	8	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: narrate
- voice: narrator
- polarity: neg
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **feel** | present | you |  |  |  |  | about a loss; sad *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus |
| 2 | **depend** | present |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn rely-70 «NP V PP.theme S\_ING»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **care** | past | you | much |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 4 | **not** **is** | past | the animal |  |  |  |  | big *property* | tree rules |
| 5 | **laugh** | gerund |  |  |  | someone's sadness |  |  | vn nonverbal\_expression-40.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **make** | present | laughing | people |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 7 | **hide** | infinitive | people *not said here* | animal |  |  |  |  | vn concealment-16-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent it=Patient |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson:15`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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