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title: That loop is guilt, and it is very common after a death: the mind hu… — When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of… · tree and pragmatics
description: That loop is guilt, and it is very common after a death: the mind hunts for one thing it could have changed, because "if only I had" feels less helpless than "nothing could be done". Who acts: loop, mind, thought. A sentence of the lesson «When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief» of th
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# When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief, sentence 4

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That loop is guilt, and it is very common after a death: the mind hunts for one thing it could have changed, because "if only I had" feels less helpless than "nothing could be done".

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**Who acts:** loop, mind, thought · **What happens:** be, hunt, change, have, feel, do · **To what, where:** guilt, one thing, nothing

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When someone dies: guilt, numbness and waves of grief» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (loop, mind, thought), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson:4
# text = That loop is guilt, and it is very common after a death: the mind hunts for one thing it could have changed, because "if only I had" feels less helpless than "nothing could be done".
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1
1	That	that	DET	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	2	det	_	_
2	loop	loop	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	nsubj	_	_
3	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	cop	_	_
4	guilt	guilt	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	_
5	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	10	punct	_	_
6	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	10	cc	_	_
7	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	10	nsubj	_	_
8	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	10	cop	_	_
9	very	very	ADV	RB	_	10	advmod	_	_
10	common	common	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	conj	_	_
11	after	after	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
12	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	13	det	_	_
13	death	death	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	10	obl	_	_
14	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	17	punct	_	_
15	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	16	det	_	_
16	mind	mind	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	17	nsubj	_	_
17	hunts	hunt	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	parataxis	_	_
18	for	for	ADP	IN	_	20	case	_	_
19	one	one	NUM	CD	NumForm=Word|NumType=Card	20	nummod	_	_
20	thing	thing	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	17	obl	_	_
21	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	24	nsubj	_	_
22	could	could	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	24	aux	_	_
23	have	have	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	24	aux	_	_
24	changed	change	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	20	acl:relcl	_	_
25	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	31	punct	_	_
26	because	because	SCONJ	IN	_	33	mark	_	_
27	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	31	punct	_	_
28	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	31	mark	_	_
29	only	only	ADV	RB	_	31	advmod	_	_
30	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	31	nsubj	_	_
31	had	have	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	33	advcl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=33:csubj
32	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	31	punct	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=31:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:``:_
33	feels	feel	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	17	advcl	_	_
34	less	less	ADV	RBR	Degree=Cmp	35	advmod	_	_
35	helpless	helpless	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	33	xcomp	_	_
36	than	than	SCONJ	IN	_	41	mark	_	_
37	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	41	punct	_	_
38	nothing	nothing	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Neg	41	nsubj:pass	_	_
39	could	could	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	41	aux	_	_
40	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	41	aux:pass	_	_
41	done	do	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	31	advcl	_	_
42	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	41	punct	_	_
43	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is a** | present | that loop | guilt |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 2 | **is** | present | loop |  |  |  | after a death | common *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **hunt** | present | the mind |  |  |  |  | for one thing | vn hunt-35.1 «NP V PP.theme PP.location»: agent=Agent for thing=Theme |
| 4 | **change** | could · perfect | mind | one thing *not said here* |  |  |  |  | vn dress-41.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent thing=Patient |
| 5 | **have** *a condition, not said to happen, in a quote* | past | thought |  |  |  |  |  | vn birth-28.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **feel** | present | the mind *not said here* |  |  |  |  | helpless *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus |
| 7 | **do** *in a quote* | could · passive |  | nothing |  |  |  |  | vn act-114-1 «NP V NP»: subject=Eventuality |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:001-when-someone-dies-guilt-numbness-and-waves-of-grief.lesson:4`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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