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description: Children should not have to choose between parents; where a child lives ("custody") is a grown-up decision, and "I love you both, I don't want to choose" is a fair thing to say. Who acts: Children, child, UK word. A sentence of the lesson «Parents shouting, parents splitting: it's not your fault» of
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# Parents shouting, parents splitting: it's not your fault, sentence 10

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Children should not have to choose between parents; where a child lives ("custody") is a grown-up decision, and "I love you both, I don't want to choose" is a fair thing to say.

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**Who acts:** Children, child, UK word · **What happens:** not have, choose, live, grow, be, love · **To what, where:** custody, up decision, you, fair thing · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Parents shouting, parents splitting: it's not your fault» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Children, child, UK word), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:012-parents-shouting-parents-splitting-it-s-not-your-fault.lesson:10
# text = Children should not have to choose between parents; where a child lives ("custody") is a grown-up decision, and "I love you both, I don't want to choose" is a fair thing to say.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 012-parents-shouting-parents-splitting-it-s-not-your-fault.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R6-punct-agree ×3, R7-rel-agree ×3
1	Children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	nsubj	_	_
2	should	should	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	4	aux	_	_
3	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	4	advmod	_	_
4	have	have	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
5	to	to	PART	TO	_	6	mark	_	_
6	choose	choose	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	4	xcomp	_	_
7	between	between	ADP	IN	_	8	case	_	_
8	parents	parent	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	6	obl	_	_
9	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	13	punct	_	_
10	where	where	ADV	WRB	PronType=Rel	13	advmod	_	_
11	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	12	det	_	_
12	child	child	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	nsubj	_	_
13	lives	live	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	advcl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=24:csubj
14	(	(	PUNCT	-LRB-	_	16	punct	_	_
15	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	16	punct	_	_
16	custody	custody	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	obj	_	_
17	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	16	punct	_	_
18	)	)	PUNCT	-RRB-	_	16	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=13:punct
19	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	cop	_	_
20	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	24	det	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=23:det
21	grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	23	amod	_	_
22	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	23	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=21:punct
23	up	up	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	24	compound	_	_
24	decision	decision	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=4:conj
25	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	29	punct	_	_
26	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	43	cc	_	_
27	"	"	PUNCT	``	_	29	punct	_	_
28	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	29	nsubj	_	_
29	love	love	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	parataxis	_	_
30	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs	29	obj	_	_
31	both	both	DET	DT	PronType=Tot	30	nmod:unmarked	_	_
32	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	36	punct	_	_
33	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	36	nsubj	_	_
34	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	36	aux	_	_
35	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	36	advmod	_	_
36	want	want	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	29	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=29:conj
37	to	to	PART	TO	_	38	mark	_	_
38	choose	choose	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	36	xcomp	_	_
39	"	"	PUNCT	''	_	29	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=43:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:``:_
40	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	43	cop	_	_
41	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	43	det	_	_
42	fair	fair	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	43	amod	_	_
43	thing	thing	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	24	conj	_	_
44	to	to	PART	TO	_	45	mark	_	_
45	say	say	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	43	acl	_	_
46	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **not** **have** | should | Children |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 2 | **choose** | to-infinitive | Children *not said here* |  |  |  |  | between parents | vn get-13.5.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **live** | present | a child | custody |  |  |  |  | vn lodge-46 «NP V ADV»: agent=Theme custody=Location |
| 4 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 5 | **is a** | present |  | a up decision and a fair thing |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 6 | **love** *in a quote* | present | a UK word *= word* | you |  |  |  |  | vn admire-31.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer you=Stimulus |
| 7 | **not** **want** *in a quote* | present · do-support | a UK word *= word* |  |  |  |  |  | vn want-32.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Pivot clause=Theme |
| 8 | **choose** *not said to happen, in a quote* | to-infinitive | a UK word *= word* *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn get-13.5.1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 9 | **is a** | present |  | a fair thing |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 10 | **say** *speech: assert* | to-infinitive |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R6-punct-agree ×3, R7-rel-agree ×3. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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