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title: A safe secret is like a surprise party; an unsafe secret is one wher… — Things I'm ashamed of: crowds, cruelty and comin… · tree and pragmatics
description: A safe secret is like a surprise party; an unsafe secret is one where someone is being hurt, and unsafe secrets must be told to a trusted adult even if you promised not to. Who acts: safe secret, unsafe secret, you. A sentence of the lesson «Things I'm ashamed of: crowds, cruelty and coming clean» o
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# Things I'm ashamed of: crowds, cruelty and coming clean, sentence 12

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A safe secret is like a surprise party; an unsafe secret is one where someone is being hurt, and unsafe secrets must be told to a trusted adult even if you promised not to.

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**Who acts:** safe secret, unsafe secret, you · **What happens:** be, hurt, tell, trust, not promise · **To what, where:** one, someone, unsafe secrets, trusted adult · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Things I'm ashamed of: crowds, cruelty and coming clean» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (safe secret, unsafe secret, you), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:016-things-im-ashamed-of-crowds-cruelty-and-coming-clean.lesson:12
# text = A safe secret is like a surprise party; an unsafe secret is one where someone is being hurt, and unsafe secrets must be told to a trusted adult even if you promised not to.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 016-things-im-ashamed-of-crowds-cruelty-and-coming-clean.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	A	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	3	det	_	_
2	safe	safe	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	3	amod	_	_
3	secret	secret	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	nsubj	_	_
4	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	cop	_	_
5	like	like	ADP	IN	_	8	case	_	_
6	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	8	det	_	_
7	surprise	surprise	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	compound	_	_
8	party	party	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	0	root	_	_
9	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	14	punct	_	Agree=R2-punct-next|Haiku=8:punct
10	an	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	12	det	_	_
11	unsafe	unsafe	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	12	amod	_	_
12	secret	secret	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	14	nsubj	_	_
13	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	14	cop	_	_
14	one	one	NUM	CD	NumForm=Word|NumType=Card	8	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=8:conj
15	where	where	ADV	WRB	PronType=Rel	19	advmod	_	_
16	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	19	nsubj:pass	_	_
17	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	19	aux:pass	_	_
18	being	be	AUX	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	19	aux:pass	_	_
19	hurt	hurt	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	14	acl:relcl	_	_
20	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	26	punct	_	_
21	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	26	cc	_	_
22	unsafe	unsafe	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	23	amod	_	_
23	secrets	secret	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	26	nsubj:pass	_	_
24	must	must	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	26	aux	_	_
25	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	26	aux:pass	_	_
26	told	tell	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	8	parataxis	_	_
27	to	to	ADP	IN	_	30	case	_	_
28	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	30	det	_	_
29	trusted	trust	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	30	amod	_	_
30	adult	adult	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	26	obl	_	_
31	even	even	ADV	RB	_	34	advmod	_	_
32	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	34	mark	_	_
33	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	34	nsubj	_	_
34	promised	promise	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	26	advcl	_	_
35	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	34	advmod	_	_
36	to	to	PART	TO	_	35	fixed	_	_
37	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	8	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is** | present | a safe secret |  |  |  |  | like a surprise party | tree rules |
| 2 | **is a** | present | a unsafe secret | one |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 3 | **hurt** | present · passive |  | someone |  |  |  |  | vn hurt-40.8.3-2 «NP V NP»: subject=Patient |
| 4 | **tell** *speech: assert* | must · passive |  | unsafe secrets | a trusted adult |  |  |  | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP PP.recipient»: subject=Topic to adult=Recipient |
| 5 | **trust** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn conjecture-29.5-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **not** **promise** *speech: promise* *a condition, not said to happen* | past | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn promise-37.13 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:016-things-im-ashamed-of-crowds-cruelty-and-coming-clean.lesson:12`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R2-punct-next ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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