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title: And not every loss is a death: a parent going to prison or a friend… — Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries an… · tree and pragmatics
description: And not every loss is a death: a parent going to prison or a friend far away can hurt in the same way, and that hurt is real too. Who acts: loss, parent, hurt. A sentence of the lesson «Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries and big questions» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school
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# Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries and big questions, sentence 5

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And not every loss is a death: a parent going to prison or a friend far away can hurt in the same way, and that hurt is real too.

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**Who acts:** loss, parent, hurt · **What happens:** not be, go, hurt, be · **To what, where:** death, prison, same way

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries and big questions» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (loss, parent, hurt), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:002-grief-has-no-timetable-houses-anniversaries-and-big-questions.lesson:5
# text = And not every loss is a death: a parent going to prison or a friend far away can hurt in the same way, and that hurt is real too.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 002-grief-has-no-timetable-houses-anniversaries-and-big-questions.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	And	and	CCONJ	CC	_	7	cc	_	_
2	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	7	advmod	_	_
3	every	every	DET	DT	PronType=Tot	4	det	_	_
4	loss	loss	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	7	nsubj	_	_
5	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	7	cop	_	_
6	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	7	det	_	_
7	death	death	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	20	parataxis	_	_
8	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	11	punct	_	_
9	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	10	det	_	_
10	parent	parent	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	nsubj	_	_
11	going	go	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	7	conj	_	_
12	to	to	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
13	prison	prison	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	obl	_	_
14	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	16	cc	_	_
15	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	16	det	_	_
16	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	conj	_	_
17	far	far	ADV	RB	Degree=Pos	18	advmod	_	_
18	away	away	ADV	RB	_	16	advmod	_	_
19	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	20	aux	_	_
20	hurt	hurt	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
21	in	in	ADP	IN	_	24	case	_	_
22	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	24	det	_	_
23	same	same	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	24	amod	_	_
24	way	way	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	20	obl	_	_
25	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	30	punct	_	_
26	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	30	cc	_	_
27	that	that	DET	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	28	det	_	_
28	hurt	hurt	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	30	nsubj	_	_
29	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	30	cop	_	_
30	real	real	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	20	conj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=20:parataxis
31	too	too	ADV	RB	_	30	advmod	_	_
32	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	7	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=20:punct
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **not** **is a** | present | every loss | a death |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 2 | **go** | gerund | a parent |  |  | prison or a friend |  |  | vn escape-51.1-1 «NP V PP.initial\_location»: agent=Theme to prison=Initial\_Location |
| 3 | **hurt** | can |  |  |  | the same way |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |
| 4 | **is** | present | that hurt |  |  |  |  | real *property* | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:002-grief-has-no-timetable-houses-anniversaries-and-big-questions.lesson:5`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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