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title: You can be sad about someone you never met, such as a baby cousin wh… — Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries an… · tree and pragmatics
description: You can be sad about someone you never met, such as a baby cousin who died before or at birth, especially when people you love are sad; there is no rule about who is allowed to grieve. Who acts: You, baby cousin, people, rule. A sentence of the lesson «Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries a
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# Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries and big questions, sentence 7

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You can be sad about someone you never met, such as a baby cousin who died before or at birth, especially when people you love are sad; there is no rule about who is allowed to grieve.

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**Who acts:** You, baby cousin, people, rule · **What happens:** be, not meet, die, love, allow, grieve · **To what, where:** people, rule

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Grief has no timetable: houses, anniversaries and big questions» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (You, baby cousin, people, rule), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:002-grief-has-no-timetable-houses-anniversaries-and-big-questions.lesson:7
# text = You can be sad about someone you never met, such as a baby cousin who died before or at birth, especially when people you love are sad; there is no rule about who is allowed to grieve.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 002-grief-has-no-timetable-houses-anniversaries-and-big-questions.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1
1	You	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	4	nsubj	_	_
2	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	4	aux	_	_
3	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	4	cop	_	_
4	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	0	root	_	_
5	about	about	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
6	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	4	obl	_	_
7	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	9	nsubj	_	_
8	never	never	ADV	RB	PronType=Neg	9	advmod	_	_
9	met	meet	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	6	acl:relcl	_	_
10	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	15	punct	_	_
11	such	such	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos|ExtPos=ADP	15	case	_	_
12	as	as	ADP	IN	_	11	fixed	_	_
13	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	15	det	_	_
14	baby	baby	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	15	compound	_	_
15	cousin	cousin	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	nmod	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=6:conj
16	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	17	nsubj	_	_
17	died	die	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	15	acl:relcl	_	_
18	before	before	ADV	RB	_	17	advmod	_	_
19	or	or	CCONJ	CC	_	21	cc	_	_
20	at	at	ADP	IN	_	21	case	_	_
21	birth	birth	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	conj	_	_
22	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	29	punct	_	_
23	especially	especially	ADV	RB	_	29	advmod	_	_
24	when	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	29	advmod	_	_
25	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	29	nsubj	_	_
26	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	27	nsubj	_	_
27	love	love	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	25	acl:relcl	_	_
28	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	29	cop	_	_
29	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	advcl	_	_
30	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	32	punct	_	_
31	there	there	PRON	EX	PronType=Dem	32	expl	_	_
32	is	be	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	4	parataxis	_	_
33	no	no	DET	DT	PronType=Neg	34	det	_	_
34	rule	rule	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	32	nsubj	_	_
35	about	about	SCONJ	IN	_	38	mark	_	_
36	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	38	nsubj	_	_
37	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	38	aux:pass	_	_
38	allowed	allow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	34	acl:relcl	_	_
39	to	to	PART	TO	_	40	mark	_	_
40	grieve	grieve	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	38	xcomp	_	_
41	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is** | can | You |  |  |  |  | about someone; sad *property* | tree rules |
| 2 | **not** **meet** | past | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn meet-36.3-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **die** | past | a baby cousin |  |  |  |  | before *property* | vn calibratable\_cos-45.6.1 «NP.attribute V»: agent=Attribute |
| 4 | **love** | present | you | people *not said here* |  |  |  |  | vn admire-31.2-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer people=Stimulus |
| 5 | **is** | present | people |  |  |  |  | especially, sad *property* | tree rules |
| 6 | **be** | present | no rule |  |  | there |  |  | vn exist-47.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 7 | **allow** | present · passive |  | no rule |  |  |  |  | vn allow-64.1-1 «NP V NP S»: subject=Beneficiary clause=Eventuality |
| 8 | **grieve** *not said to happen* | to-infinitive | no rule *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:002-grief-has-no-timetable-houses-anniversaries-and-big-questions.lesson:7`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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