--- title: If a friend says they wish they weren't here, or you learn a friend… — Getting help: when sadness or worry won't go away · tree and pragmatics description: If a friend says they wish they weren't here, or you learn a friend is hurting themselves, tell a trusted adult straight away, even if they asked you not to; you can also call a helpline. Who acts: friend, doctor, you. 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The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (friend, doctor, you), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree. ## The tree {#tree} ```conllu # sent_id = school:reflection:029-getting-help-when-sadness-or-worry-wont-go-away.lesson:13 # text = If a friend says they wish they weren't here, or you learn a friend is hurting themselves, tell a trusted adult straight away, even if they asked you not to; you can also call a helpline. # source = school lesson (ours) # course = reflection # lesson = 029-getting-help-when-sadness-or-worry-wont-go-away.lesson # annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1 1 If if SCONJ IN _ 4 mark _ _ 2 a a DET DT Definite=Ind|PronType=Art 3 det _ _ 3 friend friend NOUN NN Number=Sing 4 nsubj _ _ 4 says say VERB VBZ Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin 0 root _ _ 5 they they PRON PRP Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs 6 nsubj _ _ 6 wish wish VERB VBP Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin 4 ccomp _ _ 7 they they PRON PRP Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs 10 nsubj _ _ 8 were be AUX VBD Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin 10 cop _ _ 9 n't not PART RB Polarity=Neg 10 advmod _ _ 10 here here ADV RB PronType=Dem 6 ccomp _ Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=6:advmod 11 , , PUNCT , _ 14 punct _ _ 12 or or CCONJ CC _ 14 cc _ _ 13 you you PRON PRP Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs 14 nsubj _ _ 14 learn learn VERB VBP Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin 4 conj _ _ 15 a a DET DT Definite=Ind|PronType=Art 16 det _ _ 16 friend friend NOUN NN Number=Sing 18 nsubj _ _ 17 is be AUX VBZ Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin 18 aux _ _ 18 hurting hurt VERB VBG Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part 14 ccomp _ _ 19 themselves themselves PRON PRP Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs|Reflex=Yes 18 obj _ _ 20 , , PUNCT , _ 21 punct _ _ 21 tell tell VERB VB VerbForm=Inf 4 conj _ _ 22 a a DET DT Definite=Ind|PronType=Art 24 det _ _ 23 trusted trust VERB VBN Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass 24 amod _ _ 24 adult adult NOUN NN Number=Sing 21 obj _ _ 25 straight straight ADV RB _ 26 advmod _ _ 26 away away ADV RB _ 21 advmod _ _ 27 , , PUNCT , _ 31 punct _ _ 28 even even ADV RB _ 31 advmod _ _ 29 if if SCONJ IN _ 31 mark _ _ 30 they they PRON PRP Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs 31 nsubj _ _ 31 asked ask VERB VBD Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin 21 advcl _ _ 32 you you PRON PRP Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs 31 obj _ _ 33 not not PART RB Polarity=Neg 31 advmod _ _ 34 to to PART TO _ 33 fixed _ _ 35 ; ; PUNCT , _ 39 punct _ _ 36 you you PRON PRP Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs 39 nsubj _ _ 37 can can AUX MD VerbForm=Fin 39 aux _ _ 38 also also ADV RB _ 39 advmod _ _ 39 call call VERB VB VerbForm=Inf 4 conj _ _ 40 a a DET DT Definite=Ind|PronType=Art 41 det _ _ 41 helpline helpline NOUN NN Number=Sing 39 obj _ _ 42 . . PUNCT . _ 4 punct _ _ ``` ## Pragmatics {#pragmatics} No stored speech act for this sentence. | # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by | | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | | 1 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | a friend | | | | | | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic | | 2 | **wish** | present | doctor | | | | | | vn wish-62 «NP V for NP S\_INF»: agent=Pivot | | 3 | **not** **is** | past | doctor | | | | | here *property* | tree rules | | 4 | **learn** | present | you | | | | | | vn learn-14-2-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic | | 5 | **hurt** | present · progressive | a friend | doctor | | | | | vn hurt-40.8.3-2 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer themselves=Patient | | 6 | **tell** *speech: assert* | infinitive | a friend *not said here* | | a trusted adult | | | away *property* | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent adult=Recipient | | 7 | **trust** | participle | | | | | | | vn conjecture-29.5-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent | | 8 | **not** **ask** *speech: ask* *a condition, not said to happen* | past | doctor | | you | | | | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent you=Recipient | | 9 | **call** | can | you | a helpline | | | | | vn initiate\_communication-37.4.2-1 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent helpline=Recipient | One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree. **Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:029-getting-help-when-sadness-or-worry-wont-go-away.lesson:13`. **The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence. 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