--- title: After a loss, the things you used to do with someone can hurt at fir… — Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss tha… · tree and pragmatics description: After a loss, the things you used to do with someone can hurt at first, and later turn into the very things that make you feel close to them. Who acts: you, things, very things. 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The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (you, things, very things), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree. ## The tree {#tree} ```conllu # sent_id = school:reflection:003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson:0 # text = After a loss, the things you used to do with someone can hurt at first, and later turn into the very things that make you feel close to them. # source = school lesson (ours) # course = reflection # lesson = 003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson # annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1 1 After after ADP IN _ 3 case _ _ 2 a a DET DT Definite=Ind|PronType=Art 3 det _ _ 3 loss loss NOUN NN Number=Sing 14 obl _ Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=8:obl 4 , , PUNCT , _ 3 punct _ _ 5 the the DET DT Definite=Def|PronType=Art 6 det _ _ 6 things thing NOUN NNS Number=Plur 14 nsubj _ _ 7 you you PRON PRP Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs 8 nsubj _ _ 8 used use VERB VBD Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin 6 acl:relcl _ _ 9 to to PART TO _ 10 mark _ _ 10 do do VERB VB VerbForm=Inf 8 xcomp _ _ 11 with with ADP IN _ 12 case _ _ 12 someone someone PRON NN Number=Sing|PronType=Ind 10 obl _ _ 13 can can AUX MD VerbForm=Fin 14 aux _ _ 14 hurt hurt VERB VB VerbForm=Inf 0 root _ _ 15 at at ADP IN _ 16 case _ _ 16 first first ADV RB NumForm=Word|NumType=Ord 14 obl _ _ 17 , , PUNCT , _ 20 punct _ _ 18 and and CCONJ CC _ 20 cc _ _ 19 later late ADV RBR Degree=Cmp 20 advmod _ _ 20 turn turn VERB VB VerbForm=Inf 14 conj _ Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=14:conj|HaikuPos=VERB:VBP:Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin 21 into into ADP IN _ 24 case _ _ 22 the the DET DT Definite=Def|PronType=Art 24 det _ _ 23 very very ADJ JJ Degree=Pos 24 amod _ Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=24:advmod|HaikuPos=ADV:RB:_ 24 things thing NOUN NNS Number=Plur 20 obl _ _ 25 that that PRON WDT PronType=Rel 26 nsubj _ _ 26 make make VERB VBP Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin 24 acl:relcl _ _ 27 you you PRON PRP Case=Acc|Person=2|PronType=Prs 26 obj _ _ 28 feel feel VERB VB VerbForm=Inf 26 xcomp _ _ 29 close close ADJ JJ Degree=Pos 28 xcomp _ _ 30 to to ADP IN _ 31 case _ _ 31 them they PRON PRP Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs 29 obl _ _ 32 . . PUNCT . _ 14 punct _ _ ``` ## Pragmatics {#pragmatics} No stored speech act for this sentence. | # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by | | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | | 1 | **use** | past | you | the things *not said here* | | | | | vn use-105.1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Agent thing=Theme clause=Eventuality | | 2 | **do** | to-infinitive | you *not said here* | | | | | with someone | vn act-114-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent | | 3 | **hurt** | can | the things | | | | after a loss | | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer | | 4 | **turn** | infinitive | the things *not said here* | | | the very things | | late *property* | vn roll-51.3.1 «NP V PP.trajectory»: agent=Theme into thing=Trajectory | | 5 | **make** | present | the very things | you | | | | | tree rules | | 6 | **feel** | infinitive | you *not said here* | | | | | close *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus | One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree. **Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson:0`. **The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence. 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