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title: Finding another person who can talk and share stories, like a gran,… — Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss tha… · tree and pragmatics
description: Finding another person who can talk and share stories, like a gran, often helps when the rest of the family goes quiet. Who acts: person, Finding, rest. A sentence of the lesson «Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school with its
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# Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death, sentence 13

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Finding another person who can talk and share stories, like a gran, often helps when the rest of the family goes quiet.

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**Who acts:** person, Finding, rest · **What happens:** find, talk, share, help, go · **To what, where:** person, stories

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (person, Finding, rest), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson:13
# text = Finding another person who can talk and share stories, like a gran, often helps when the rest of the family goes quiet.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change
1	Finding	find	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	16	csubj	_	_
2	another	another	DET	DT	PronType=Ind	3	det	_	_
3	person	person	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	1	obj	_	_
4	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	6	nsubj	_	_
5	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	6	aux	_	_
6	talk	talk	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	3	acl:relcl	_	_
7	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	8	cc	_	_
8	share	share	VERB	VB	Mood=Imp|VerbForm=Fin	6	conj	_	_
9	stories	story	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	8	obj	_	_
10	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	13	punct	_	_
11	like	like	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
12	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	13	det	_	_
13	gran	gran	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	9	nmod	_	_
14	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	16	punct	_	_
15	often	often	ADV	RB	_	16	advmod	_	_
16	helps	help	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
17	when	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	23	mark	_	_
18	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	19	det	_	_
19	rest	rest	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	23	nsubj	_	_
20	of	of	ADP	IN	_	22	case	_	_
21	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	22	det	_	_
22	family	family	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	19	nmod	_	_
23	goes	go	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	16	advcl	_	_
24	quiet	quiet	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	23	xcomp	_	_
25	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	16	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **find** | gerund |  | another person |  |  |  |  | vn discover-84 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent person=Topic |
| 2 | **talk** | can | another person |  |  |  |  |  | vn talk-37.5 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 3 | **share** | infinitive | another person *not said here* | stories |  |  |  | like a gran | tree rules |
| 4 | **help** | present | Finding |  |  |  |  | often *property* | vn help-72.1-1-1 «NP V PP.theme»: agent=Agent |
| 5 | **go** | present | the rest of the family |  |  |  |  | quiet *property* | vn disappearance-48.2-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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