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title: Doing things you did with someone who died can hurt at first, then b… — Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss tha… · tree and pragmatics
description: Doing things you did with someone who died can hurt at first, then become a way to feel close to them; this is called keeping a tradition. Who acts: you, Doing. A sentence of the lesson «Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school 
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# Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death, sentence 6

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Doing things you did with someone who died can hurt at first, then become a way to feel close to them; this is called keeping a tradition.

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**Who acts:** you, Doing · **What happens:** do, die, hurt, become, feel, call · **To what, where:** things, way, this, tradition · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (you, Doing), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson:6
# text = Doing things you did with someone who died can hurt at first, then become a way to feel close to them; this is called keeping a tradition.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change
1	Doing	do	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	10	csubj	_	_
2	things	thing	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	1	obj	_	_
3	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	4	nsubj	_	_
4	did	do	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	2	acl:relcl	_	_
5	with	with	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
6	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	4	obl	_	_
7	who	who	PRON	WP	PronType=Rel	8	nsubj	_	_
8	died	die	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	6	acl:relcl	_	_
9	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	10	aux	_	_
10	hurt	hurt	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
11	at	at	ADP	IN	_	12	case	_	_
12	first	first	ADV	RB	NumForm=Word|NumType=Ord	10	obl	_	_
13	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	15	punct	_	_
14	then	then	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	15	advmod	_	_
15	become	become	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	10	conj	_	_
16	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	17	det	_	_
17	way	way	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	15	xcomp	_	_
18	to	to	PART	TO	_	19	mark	_	_
19	feel	feel	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	17	acl	_	_
20	close	close	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	19	xcomp	_	_
21	to	to	ADP	IN	_	22	case	_	_
22	them	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Acc|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	20	obl	_	_
23	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	26	punct	_	_
24	this	this	PRON	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	26	nsubj:pass	_	_
25	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	26	aux:pass	_	_
26	called	call	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	10	conj	_	_
27	keeping	keep	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	26	xcomp	_	_
28	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	29	det	_	_
29	tradition	tradition	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	obj	_	_
30	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	10	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **do** | gerund |  | things |  |  |  |  | vn act-114-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent thing=Eventuality |
| 2 | **do** | past | you | things *not said here* |  |  |  | with someone | vn act-114-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent thing=Eventuality |
| 3 | **die** | past |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn calibratable\_cos-45.6.1 «NP.attribute V»: agent=Attribute |
| 4 | **hurt** | can | Doing |  |  |  |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |
| 5 | **become** | infinitive | Doing *not said here* | a way |  |  | then |  | vn become-109.1-1-1 «NP V PP.attribute»: agent=Patient |
| 6 | **feel** | to-infinitive | Doing *not said here* | a way *not said here* |  |  |  | close *property* | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V ADJ»: agent=Stimulus |
| 7 | **call** | present · passive |  | this |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 8 | **keep** | gerund |  | a tradition |  |  |  |  | vn keep-15.2 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent tradition=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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