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title: Being scared of how an ill parent looks does not make a child mean;… — Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss tha… · tree and pragmatics
description: Being scared of how an ill parent looks does not make a child mean; asking questions usually helps more than pretending not to notice. Who acts: ill parent, child, asking. A sentence of the lesson «Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death» of the reflection course of Mova's prim
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# Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death, sentence 8

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Being scared of how an ill parent looks does not make a child mean; asking questions usually helps more than pretending not to notice.

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**Who acts:** ill parent, child, asking · **What happens:** be, look, not make, not mean, ask, help · **To what, where:** child, questions, more

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Living with loss: keeping memories, and loss that isn't death» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (ill parent, child, asking), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson:8
# text = Being scared of how an ill parent looks does not make a child mean; asking questions usually helps more than pretending not to notice.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×2, R8-pos-agree ×1
1	Being	be	AUX	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	2	cop	_	_
2	scared	scared	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	11	csubj	_	_
3	of	of	SCONJ	IN	_	8	mark	_	_
4	how	how	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	8	advmod	_	_
5	an	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	7	det	_	_
6	ill	ill	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	7	amod	_	_
7	parent	parent	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	nsubj	_	_
8	looks	look	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	2	ccomp	_	_
9	does	do	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	aux	_	_
10	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	11	advmod	_	_
11	make	make	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
12	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	13	det	_	_
13	child	child	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	obj	_	_
14	mean	mean	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	11	xcomp	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=11:xcomp|HaikuPos=ADJ:JJ:Degree=Pos
15	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	19	punct	_	_
16	asking	ask	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	19	csubj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=19:nsubj
17	questions	question	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	16	obj	_	_
18	usually	usually	ADV	RB	_	19	advmod	_	_
19	helps	help	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=11:conj
20	more	more	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	19	obj	_	_
21	than	than	SCONJ	IN	_	22	mark	_	_
22	pretending	pretend	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	20	acl	_	_
23	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	25	advmod	_	_
24	to	to	PART	TO	_	25	mark	_	_
25	notice	notice	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	22	xcomp	_	_
26	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	11	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **is** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  | scared *property* | tree rules |
| 2 | **look** | present | a ill parent |  |  |  |  |  | vn stimulus\_subject-30.4 «NP V PP.attribute»: agent=Stimulus |
| 3 | **not** **make** | present · do-support |  | a child |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 4 | **not** **mean** | infinitive | a child *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V S»: agent=Agent |
| 5 | **ask** *speech: ask* | gerund |  | questions |  |  |  |  | vn inquire-37.1.2 «NP V NP.recipient»: agent=Agent question=Recipient |
| 6 | **help** | present | asking | more |  |  |  | usually *property* | vn help-72.1-1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent more=Beneficiary |
| 7 | **pretend** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 8 | **not** **notice** | to-infinitive |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn see-30.1-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:reflection:003-living-with-loss-keeping-memories-and-loss-that-isn-t-death.lesson:8`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R7-rel-agree ×2, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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