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title: Across most hard events, the things that help are talking to someone… — Getting through it: who helps, what helps, and l… · tree and pragmatics
description: Across most hard events, the things that help are talking to someone you trust, putting right what you can, small steps and time; hiding, pretending and waiting alone help least. Who acts: things, you. A sentence of the lesson «Getting through it: who helps, what helps, and looking back» of the refl
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# Getting through it: who helps, what helps, and looking back, sentence 18

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Across most hard events, the things that help are talking to someone you trust, putting right what you can, small steps and time; hiding, pretending and waiting alone help least.

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**Who acts:** things, you · **What happens:** help, talk, trust, put, can, hide · **To what, where:** most hard events, small steps

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Getting through it: who helps, what helps, and looking back» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (things, you), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:030-getting-through-it-who-helps-what-helps-and-looking-back.lesson:18
# text = Across most hard events, the things that help are talking to someone you trust, putting right what you can, small steps and time; hiding, pretending and waiting alone help least.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 030-getting-through-it-who-helps-what-helps-and-looking-back.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change
1	Across	across	ADP	IN	_	4	case	_	_
2	most	most	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	4	amod	_	_
3	hard	hard	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	4	amod	_	_
4	events	event	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	11	obl	_	_
5	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	4	punct	_	_
6	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	7	det	_	_
7	things	thing	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	11	nsubj	_	_
8	that	that	PRON	WDT	PronType=Rel	9	nsubj	_	_
9	help	help	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	7	acl:relcl	_	_
10	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	aux	_	_
11	talking	talk	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	0	root	_	_
12	to	to	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
13	someone	someone	PRON	NN	Number=Sing|PronType=Ind	11	obl	_	_
14	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	15	nsubj	_	_
15	trust	trust	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	13	acl:relcl	_	_
16	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	_	_
17	putting	put	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	11	conj	_	_
18	right	right	ADV	RB	_	19	advmod	_	_
19	what	what	PRON	WP	PronType=Int	17	obj	_	_
20	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	21	nsubj	_	_
21	can	can	VERB	MD	VerbForm=Fin	19	acl:relcl	_	_
22	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
23	small	small	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	24	amod	_	_
24	steps	step	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	17	obj	_	_
25	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	26	cc	_	_
26	time	time	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	24	conj	_	_
27	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	28	punct	_	_
28	hiding	hide	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	34	nsubj	_	_
29	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	30	punct	_	_
30	pretending	pretend	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	28	conj	_	_
31	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	32	cc	_	_
32	waiting	wait	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	28	conj	_	_
33	alone	alone	ADV	RB	_	32	advmod	_	_
34	help	help	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	11	conj	_	_
35	least	least	ADV	RBS	Degree=Sup	34	advmod	_	_
36	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	11	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **help** | present | the things |  |  |  |  |  | vn help-72.1-1-1 «NP V PP.theme»: agent=Agent |
| 2 | **talk** | present · progressive | the things |  |  | most hard events |  | to someone | vn talk-37.5 «NP V PP.co-agent»: agent=Agent to someone=Co-Agent |
| 3 | **trust** | present | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn conjecture-29.5-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **put** | gerund | the things *not said here* | small steps and time |  |  |  |  | vn invest-13.5.4-1 «NP V NP PP.goal»: agent=Agent what=Asset step=Goal |
| 5 | **can** |  | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn fire-10.10 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **hide** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn concealment-16-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 7 | **pretend** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 8 | **wait** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  | alone *property* | vn exist-47.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 9 | **help** | present |  |  |  |  |  | least *property* | vn help-72.1-1-1 «NP V PP.theme»: agent=Agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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