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# Getting through it: who helps, what helps, and looking back, sentence 3

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This whole course has told the same story many times, about grief, guilt, fights, being left out, failing and the tricks of the night mind: the first nights are the loudest, the feeling changes over days and weeks, the looping thought slowly loosens, and you come to understand things you could not see at the start.

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**Who acts:** whole course, first nights, feeling, looping thought, you · **What happens:** tell, leave out, fail, be, change, loosen · **To what, where:** same story, things, start, night mind · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Getting through it: who helps, what helps, and looking back» of the reflection course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (whole course, first nights, feeling, looping thought), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:reflection:030-getting-through-it-who-helps-what-helps-and-looking-back.lesson:3
# text = This whole course has told the same story many times, about grief, guilt, fights, being left out, failing and the tricks of the night mind: the first nights are the loudest, the feeling changes over days and weeks, the looping thought slowly loosens, and you come to understand things you could not see at the start.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = reflection
# lesson = 030-getting-through-it-who-helps-what-helps-and-looking-back.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2
1	This	this	DET	DT	Number=Sing|PronType=Dem	3	det	_	_
2	whole	whole	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	3	amod	_	_
3	course	course	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	nsubj	_	_
4	has	have	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	aux	_	_
5	told	tell	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	0	root	_	_
6	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	8	det	_	_
7	same	same	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	8	amod	_	_
8	story	story	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	obj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=10:compound
9	many	many	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	10	amod	_	_
10	times	time	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	obl:unmarked	_	_
11	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	13	punct	_	_
12	about	about	ADP	IN	_	13	case	_	_
13	grief	grief	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	obl	_	_
14	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	15	punct	_	_
15	guilt	guilt	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	13	conj	_	_
16	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	17	punct	_	_
17	fights	fight	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	13	conj	_	_
18	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	20	punct	_	_
19	being	be	AUX	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	20	aux:pass	_	_
20	left	leave	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	13	conj	_	_
21	out	out	ADP	RP	_	20	compound:prt	_	_
22	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	23	punct	_	_
23	failing	fail	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	13	conj	_	_
24	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	26	cc	_	_
25	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	26	det	_	_
26	tricks	trick	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	13	conj	_	_
27	of	of	ADP	IN	_	30	case	_	_
28	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	30	det	_	_
29	night	night	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	30	compound	_	_
30	mind	mind	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	26	nmod	_	_
31	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	5	punct	_	_
32	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	34	det	_	_
33	first	first	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos|NumForm=Word|NumType=Ord	34	amod	_	_
34	nights	night	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	37	nsubj	_	_
35	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	37	cop	_	_
36	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	37	det	_	_
37	loudest	loud	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	5	parataxis	_	_
38	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	41	punct	_	_
39	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	40	det	_	_
40	feeling	feeling	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	41	nsubj	_	_
41	changes	change	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	37	parataxis	_	_
42	over	over	ADP	IN	_	43	case	_	_
43	days	day	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	41	obl	_	_
44	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	45	cc	_	_
45	weeks	week	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	43	conj	_	_
46	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	41	punct	_	_
47	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	49	det	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=48:det
48	looping	looping	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	49	compound	_	_
49	thought	think	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	51	nsubj	_	_
50	slowly	slowly	ADV	RB	_	51	advmod	_	_
51	loosens	loosen	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	parataxis	_	_
52	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	55	punct	_	_
53	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	55	cc	_	_
54	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	55	nsubj	_	_
55	come	come	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	conj	_	_
56	to	to	PART	TO	_	57	mark	_	_
57	understand	understand	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	55	xcomp	_	_
58	things	thing	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	57	obj	_	_
59	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	62	nsubj	_	_
60	could	could	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	62	aux	_	_
61	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	62	advmod	_	_
62	see	see	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	58	acl:relcl	_	_
63	at	at	ADP	IN	_	65	case	_	_
64	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	65	det	_	_
65	start	start	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	62	obl	_	_
66	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	5	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: changed act=assert

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **tell** *speech: assert* | present · perfect | this whole course | the same story |  |  | time | about grief and guilt and fights and the tricks of the night mind | vn transfer\_mesg-37.1.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_ING»: agent=Agent story=Recipient about grief=Topic |
| 2 | **leave out** | gerund · passive | this whole course *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn neglect-75.1 «NP V NP» |
| 3 | **fail** | gerund | this whole course *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn succeed-74-3-1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 4 | **is** | present | the first nights |  |  |  |  | loud *property* | tree rules |
| 5 | **change** | present | the feeling |  |  |  | day |  | vn dress-41.1.1-1-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **loosen** | present | the looping thought |  |  |  |  | slowly *property* | vn other\_cos-45.4 «NP.patient V»: agent=Patient |
| 7 | **come** | present | you |  |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 8 | **understand** | to-infinitive | you *not said here* | things |  |  |  |  | vn comprehend-87.2-1-1-1 «NP V NP PP.attribute»: agent=Experiencer thing=Stimulus |
| 9 | **not** **see** | could | you | things *not said here* |  | the start |  |  | vn comprehend-87.2-1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Experiencer thing=Stimulus |
| 10 | **trick** |  |  | the night mind |  |  |  |  | nom trick «act transitive»: of=patient |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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