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title: Picture Grace on the day Lily comes back to school after her mum die… — When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and… · tree and pragmatics
description: Picture Grace on the day Lily comes back to school after her mum died: Grace does not make a speech, she says «I'm sorry, I'm here if you want to talk», sits next to Lily at lunch, and then just carries on being a normal friend. Who acts: Picture Grace, mum, Grace, you. A sentence of the lesson «Whe
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# When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do, sentence 1

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Picture Grace on the day Lily comes back to school after her mum died: Grace does not make a speech, she says «I'm sorry, I'm here if you want to talk», sits next to Lily at lunch, and then just carries on being a normal friend.

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**Who acts:** Picture Grace, mum, Grace, you · **What happens:** come back, die, not make, say, be, want · **To what, where:** school, speech, Lily, lunch · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Picture Grace, mum, Grace, you), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson:1
# text = Picture Grace on the day Lily comes back to school after her mum died: Grace does not make a speech, she says «I'm sorry, I'm here if you want to talk», sits next to Lily at lunch, and then just carries on being a normal friend.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×4, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2
1	Picture	picture	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	2	compound	_	_
2	Grace	grace	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	7	nsubj	_	_
3	on	on	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
4	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	5	det	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=6:det
5	day	day	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	6	compound	_	_
6	Lily	Lily	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	7	nsubj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=2:nmod|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
7	comes	come	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
8	back	back	ADV	RB	_	7	advmod	_	_
9	to	to	ADP	IN	_	10	case	_	_
10	school	school	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	7	obl	_	_
11	after	after	SCONJ	IN	_	14	mark	_	_
12	her	her	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	13	nmod:poss	_	_
13	mum	mum	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	14	nsubj	_	_
14	died	die	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	7	advcl	_	_
15	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	19	punct	_	_
16	Grace	Grace	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	19	nsubj	_	_
17	does	do	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	19	aux	_	_
18	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	19	advmod	_	_
19	make	make	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	7	parataxis	_	_
20	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	21	det	_	_
21	speech	speech	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	19	obj	_	_
22	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	24	punct	_	_
23	she	she	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Fem|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	24	nsubj	_	_
24	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	19	parataxis	_	_
25	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	28	punct	_	_
26	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	28	nsubj	_	_
27	'm	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	28	cop	_	_
28	sorry	sorry	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	24	ccomp	_	_
29	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	32	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=28:punct
30	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	32	nsubj	_	_
31	'm	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	32	cop	_	_
32	here	here	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	28	ccomp	_	_
33	if	if	SCONJ	IN	_	35	mark	_	_
34	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	35	nsubj	_	_
35	want	want	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	32	advcl	_	_
36	to	to	PART	TO	_	37	mark	_	_
37	talk	talk	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	35	xcomp	_	_
38	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	24	punct	_	_
39	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	40	punct	_	_
40	sits	sit	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	24	conj	_	_
41	next	next	ADV	RB	_	40	advmod	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=43:advmod
42	to	to	ADP	IN	_	43	case	_	_
43	Lily	Lily	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	40	obl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=40:obj|HaikuPos=NOUN:NN:Number=Sing
44	at	at	ADP	IN	_	45	case	_	_
45	lunch	lunch	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	40	obl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=43:nmod
46	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	50	punct	_	_
47	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	50	cc	_	_
48	then	then	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	50	advmod	_	_
49	just	just	ADV	RB	_	50	advmod	_	_
50	carries	carry	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	40	conj	_	_
51	on	on	ADP	IN	_	55	case	_	_
52	being	be	AUX	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	55	cop	_	_
53	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	55	det	_	_
54	normal	normal	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	55	amod	_	_
55	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	50	advcl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=50:obl
56	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	7	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: command
- act: other
- voice: narrator
- polarity: pos
- teacher: changed act=other

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **come back** | present | Picture Grace |  |  | school |  |  | vn escape-51.1-1 «NP V PP.initial\_location»: agent=Theme to school=Initial\_Location |
| 2 | **die** | past | Lily's mum |  |  |  |  |  | vn calibratable\_cos-45.6.1 «NP.attribute V»: agent=Attribute |
| 3 | **not** **make** | present · do-support | Grace | a speech |  |  |  |  | vn build-26.1-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent speech=Product |
| 4 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | Grace |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 5 | **is** *in a quote* | present | Grace |  |  |  |  | sorry *property* | tree rules |
| 6 | **is** *in a quote* | present | Grace |  |  |  |  | here *property* | tree rules |
| 7 | **want** *a condition, not said to happen, in a quote* | present | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn want-32.1-1-1 «NP V NP S\_INF»: agent=Pivot clause=Theme |
| 8 | **talk** *not said to happen, in a quote* | to-infinitive | you *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn talk-37.5 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 9 | **sit** | present | Grace *not said here* |  | Lily | lunch |  | next *property* | vn assuming\_position-50 «NP V PP.location»: agent=Agent at lunch=Location |
| 10 | **carry** | present | Grace *not said here* |  |  |  | then |  | vn carry-11.4 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent |
| 11 | **is** | gerund | Grace *not said here* |  |  |  |  | on a normal friend | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:religion-ethics:061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson:1`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×4, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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