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title: Sentences starting «at least» can make a grieving person feel their… — When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and… · tree and pragmatics
description: Sentences starting «at least» can make a grieving person feel their loss doesn't count, even when they are meant kindly. Who acts: Sentences, grieving person, loss. A sentence of the lesson «When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school w
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# When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do, sentence 6

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Sentences starting «at least» can make a grieving person feel their loss doesn't count, even when they are meant kindly.

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**Who acts:** Sentences, grieving person, loss · **What happens:** start, make, grieve, feel, not count, mean · **To what, where:** least, grieving person, Sentences

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Sentences, grieving person, loss), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson:6
# text = Sentences starting «at least» can make a grieving person feel their loss doesn't count, even when they are meant kindly.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×2, R7-rel-agree ×2
1	Sentences	sentence	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	8	nsubj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=8:root
2	starting	start	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	1	acl	_	_
3	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	5	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=2:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
4	at	at	ADP	IN	_	5	case	_	_
5	least	least	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	2	obl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=2:obj
6	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	5	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=2:punct
7	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	8	aux	_	_
8	make	make	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	0	root	_	_
9	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	11	det	_	_
10	grieving	grieve	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	11	amod	_	_
11	person	person	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	obj	_	_
12	feel	feel	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	8	xcomp	_	_
13	their	their	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Number=Plur|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	14	nmod:poss	_	_
14	loss	loss	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	17	nsubj	_	_
15	does	do	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	17	aux	_	_
16	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	17	advmod	_	_
17	count	count	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	12	ccomp	_	_
18	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	23	punct	_	_
19	even	even	ADV	RB	_	23	advmod	_	_
20	when	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	23	advmod	_	_
21	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	23	nsubj	_	_
22	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	23	aux:pass	_	_
23	meant	mean	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	17	advcl	_	_
24	kindly	kindly	ADV	RB	_	23	advmod	_	_
25	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	8	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: kept the draft

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **start** | gerund | Sentences *not said here* |  |  | least |  |  | vn begin-55.1-1-1 «NP.eventuality V»: agent=Eventuality |
| 2 | **make** | can | Sentences | a grieving person |  |  |  |  | tree rules |
| 3 | **grieve** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |
| 4 | **feel** | infinitive | a grieving person *not said here* |  |  |  |  |  | vn conjecture-29.5-2 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Theme |
| 5 | **not** **count** | present · do-support | Sentences's loss |  |  |  |  |  | vn matter-91 «NP V»: agent=Stimulus |
| 6 | **mean** | present · passive |  | Sentences *= sentence* |  |  |  | kindly *property* | vn intend-61.2-1 «NP V NP»: subject=Topic |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:religion-ethics:061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson:6`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×2, R7-rel-agree ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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