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title: Grieving children often swing between sadness and being normal; laug… — When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and… · tree and pragmatics
description: Grieving children often swing between sadness and being normal; laughing and playing is a rest from sadness, not a sign they don't care. Who acts: Grieving children, laughing, children. A sentence of the lesson «When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do» of the religion ethics course of Mo
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# When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do, sentence 8

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Grieving children often swing between sadness and being normal; laughing and playing is a rest from sadness, not a sign they don't care.

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**Who acts:** Grieving children, laughing, children · **What happens:** grieve, swing, be, laugh, play, not care · **To what, where:** sadness, rest, sign

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When a friend's mum or dad dies: what to say and do» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Grieving children, laughing, children), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson:8
# text = Grieving children often swing between sadness and being normal; laughing and playing is a rest from sadness, not a sign they don't care.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 061-when-a-friends-mum-or-dad-dies-what-to-say-and-do.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R1-cc-next ×2
1	Grieving	grieve	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	2	amod	_	_
2	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	nsubj	_	_
3	often	often	ADV	RB	_	4	advmod	_	_
4	swing	swing	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
5	between	between	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
6	sadness	sadness	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	obl	_	_
7	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	9	cc	_	Agree=R1-cc-next|Haiku=6:cc
8	being	be	AUX	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	9	cop	_	_
9	normal	normal	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	6	conj	_	_
10	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	11	punct	_	_
11	laughing	laugh	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	16	csubj	_	_
12	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	13	cc	_	Agree=R1-cc-next|Haiku=11:cc
13	playing	play	VERB	VBG	VerbForm=Ger	11	conj	_	_
14	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	16	cop	_	_
15	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	16	det	_	_
16	rest	rest	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	parataxis	_	_
17	from	from	ADP	IN	_	18	case	_	_
18	sadness	sadness	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	nmod	_	_
19	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	22	punct	_	_
20	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	22	advmod	_	_
21	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	22	det	_	_
22	sign	sign	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	16	parataxis	_	_
23	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	26	nsubj	_	_
24	do	do	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	26	aux	_	_
25	n't	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	26	advmod	_	_
26	care	care	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	22	acl:relcl	_	_
27	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	4	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **grieve** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn amuse-31.1 «NP V ADV-Middle»: agent=Experiencer |
| 2 | **swing** | present | Grieving children |  |  | sadness |  | often *property* | vn roll-51.3.1 «NP V PP.trajectory»: agent=Theme between sadness=Trajectory |
| 3 | **is** | gerund | Grieving children *not said here* |  |  |  |  | normal *property* | tree rules |
| 4 | **laugh** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn nonverbal\_expression-40.2 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 5 | **play** | gerund |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn performance-26.7-1 «NP V»: agent=Agent |
| 6 | **is a** | present | laughing | a rest |  | sadness |  |  | tree rules |
| 7 | **not** **care** | present · do-support | children *= child* | a sign *not said here* |  |  |  |  | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R1-cc-next ×2. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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