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title: Grief usually gets softer with time: Oscar's grandad says that a yea… — When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer · tree and pragmatics
description: Grief usually gets softer with time: Oscar's grandad says that a year after his wife died the pain is «like a bruise that's healing», still there when touched, but no longer sharp all the time. Who acts: Grief, grandad, wife, pain. A sentence of the lesson «When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets sof
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# When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer, sentence 2

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Grief usually gets softer with time: Oscar's grandad says that a year after his wife died the pain is «like a bruise that's healing», still there when touched, but no longer sharp all the time.

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**Who acts:** Grief, grandad, wife, pain · **What happens:** get, say, die, be, touch · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Grief, grandad, wife, pain), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson:2
# text = Grief usually gets softer with time: Oscar's grandad says that a year after his wife died the pain is «like a bruise that's healing», still there when touched, but no longer sharp all the time.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×3, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Grief	grief	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	3	nsubj	_	_
2	usually	usually	ADV	RB	_	3	advmod	_	_
3	gets	get	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
4	softer	soft	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	3	xcomp	_	_
5	with	with	ADP	IN	_	6	case	_	_
6	time	time	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	4	obl	_	_
7	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	8	punct	_	_
8	Oscar	Oscar	PROPN	NNP	Number=Sing	10	nmod:poss	_	_
9	's	's	PART	POS	_	8	case	_	_
10	grandad	grandad	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	11	nsubj	_	_
11	says	say	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	3	parataxis	_	_
12	that	that	SCONJ	IN	_	18	mark	_	_
13	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	14	det	_	_
14	year	year	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	18	obl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=18:nsubj
15	after	after	SCONJ	IN	_	18	mark	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=17:case|HaikuPos=ADP:IN:_
16	his	his	PRON	PRP$	Case=Gen|Gender=Masc|Number=Sing|Person=3|Poss=Yes|PronType=Prs	17	nmod:poss	_	_
17	wife	wife	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	18	nsubj	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=14:nmod
18	died	die	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	11	ccomp	_	_
19	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	20	det	_	_
20	pain	pain	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	28	nsubj	_	_
21	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	28	cop	_	_
22	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	25	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=21:punct|HaikuPos=PUNCT:,:_
23	like	like	ADP	IN	_	25	case	_	_
24	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	25	det	_	_
25	bruise	bruise	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	28	obl	_	_
26	that	that	PRON	WDT	PronType=Rel	28	nsubj	_	_
27	's	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	28	aux	_	_
28	healing	heal	VERB	VBG	Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Part	18	ccomp	_	_
29	»	»	PUNCT	,	_	34	punct	_	_
30	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	34	punct	_	_
31	still	still	ADV	RB	_	32	advmod	_	_
32	there	there	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	34	advmod	_	_
33	when	when	ADV	WRB	PronType=Int	34	advmod	_	_
34	touched	touch	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part	28	conj	_	_
35	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	39	punct	_	_
36	but	but	CCONJ	CC	_	39	cc	_	_
37	no	no	ADV	RB	_	38	advmod	_	_
38	longer	long	ADV	RBR	Degree=Cmp	39	advmod	_	_
39	sharp	sharp	ADV	RB	_	34	advmod	_	_
40	all	all	DET	PDT	PronType=Tot	42	det:predet	_	_
41	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	42	det	_	_
42	time	time	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	39	obl:unmarked	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=34:obl:unmarked
43	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	11	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: narrator
- polarity: none
- teacher: changed polarity=none

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **get** | present | Grief |  |  |  |  | soft, usually *property* | vn comprehend-87.2-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer |
| 2 | **say** *speech: assert* | present | Oscar's grandad |  |  |  |  |  | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent clause=Topic |
| 3 | **die** | past | Grandad's wife |  |  |  | year |  | vn long-32.2 «NP V S\_INF»: agent=Pivot clause=Theme |
| 4 | **is** *in a quote* | present · progressive | the pain |  |  |  |  | like a bruise; heal *property* | tree rules |
| 5 | **touch** | participle | the pain *not said here* |  |  | there |  | sharp *property* | vn contiguous\_location-47.8-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**Licence: [CC BY-SA 4.0](https://creativecommons.org/licenses/by-sa/4.0/)**, as the whole of Mova corpus 0.4, of which this treebank (the agreed school, `mova-school-agreed-en.conllu`) is part. The lessons were written for Mova's primary school. Sentence `school:religion-ethics:069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson:2`.

**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×3, R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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