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title: Grown-ups sometimes hide sadness to protect children; families often… — When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer · tree and pragmatics
description: Grown-ups sometimes hide sadness to protect children; families often heal better when they can be sad together. Who acts: Grown ups, families, ups. A sentence of the lesson «When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school with its dependency tree
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# When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer, sentence 8

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Grown-ups sometimes hide sadness to protect children; families often heal better when they can be sad together.

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**Who acts:** Grown ups, families, ups · **What happens:** grow, hide, protect, heal, be · **To what, where:** sadness, children

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (Grown ups, families, ups), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson:8
# text = Grown-ups sometimes hide sadness to protect children; families often heal better when they can be sad together.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1
1	Grown	grow	VERB	VBN	Tense=Past|VerbForm=Part|Voice=Pass	3	amod	_	_
2	-	-	PUNCT	HYPH	_	1	punct	_	_
3	ups	up	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	nsubj	_	_
4	sometimes	sometimes	ADV	RB	PronType=Ind	5	advmod	_	_
5	hide	hide	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
6	sadness	sadness	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	obj	_	_
7	to	to	PART	TO	_	8	mark	_	_
8	protect	protect	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	5	advcl	_	Agree=R5-strong|Haiku=6:acl
9	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	8	obj	_	_
10	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	13	punct	_	_
11	families	family	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	13	nsubj	_	_
12	often	often	ADV	RB	_	13	advmod	_	_
13	heal	heal	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	5	parataxis	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=5:conj|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:VerbForm=Inf
14	better	well	ADV	RBR	Degree=Cmp	13	advmod	_	_
15	when	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	19	mark	_	_
16	they	they	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Plur|Person=3|PronType=Prs	19	nsubj	_	_
17	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	19	aux	_	_
18	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	19	cop	_	_
19	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	13	advcl	_	_
20	together	together	ADV	RB	_	19	advmod	_	_
21	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	5	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **grow** | participle |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 2 | **hide** | present | Grown ups | sadness |  |  |  | sometimes *property* | vn concealment-16-1 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent sadness=Patient |
| 3 | **protect** | to-infinitive | Grown ups *not said here* |  | children |  |  |  | vn defend-72.3 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent child=Beneficiary |
| 4 | **heal** | present | families |  |  |  |  | often, well *property* | vn other\_cos-45.4 «NP.patient V»: agent=Patient |
| 5 | **is** | can | ups *= up* |  |  |  |  | sad, together *property* | tree rules |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R5-strong ×1, R7-rel-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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