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title: For most people the pain of grief gets softer over time; it does not… — When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer · tree and pragmatics
description: For most people the pain of grief gets softer over time; it does not vanish completely, but there is more room for happy memories. Who acts: pain, more room. A sentence of the lesson «When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school with its depen
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# When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer, sentence 9

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For most people the pain of grief gets softer over time; it does not vanish completely, but there is more room for happy memories.

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**Who acts:** pain, more room · **What happens:** get, not vanish, be, pain · **To what, where:** grief

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This is a sentence of the lesson «When grown-ups grieve, and how it gets softer» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (pain, more room), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson:9
# text = For most people the pain of grief gets softer over time; it does not vanish completely, but there is more room for happy memories.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 069-when-grown-ups-grieve-and-how-it-gets-softer.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change
1	For	for	ADP	IN	_	3	case	_	_
2	most	most	ADJ	JJS	Degree=Sup	3	amod	_	_
3	people	people	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	8	obl	_	_
4	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	5	det	_	_
5	pain	pain	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	8	nsubj	_	_
6	of	of	ADP	IN	_	7	case	_	_
7	grief	grief	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	nmod	_	_
8	gets	get	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
9	softer	soft	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	8	xcomp	_	_
10	over	over	ADP	IN	_	11	case	_	_
11	time	time	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	9	obl	_	_
12	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	16	punct	_	_
13	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	16	nsubj	_	_
14	does	do	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	16	aux	_	_
15	not	not	PART	RB	Polarity=Neg	16	advmod	_	_
16	vanish	vanish	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	8	parataxis	_	_
17	completely	completely	ADV	RB	_	16	advmod	_	_
18	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	21	punct	_	_
19	but	but	CCONJ	CC	_	21	cc	_	_
20	there	there	PRON	EX	PronType=Dem	21	expl	_	_
21	is	be	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	8	parataxis	_	_
22	more	more	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	23	amod	_	_
23	room	room	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	21	nsubj	_	_
24	for	for	ADP	IN	_	26	case	_	_
25	happy	happy	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	26	amod	_	_
26	memories	memory	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	23	nmod	_	_
27	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	8	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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No stored speech act for this sentence.

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **get** | present | the pain of grief |  |  |  |  | for most people; soft *property* | vn get-13.5.1-1 «NP V NP PP.beneficiary»: agent=Agent for people=Beneficiary |
| 2 | **not** **vanish** | present · do-support | pain |  |  |  |  | completely *property* | vn disappearance-48.2-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 3 | **be** | present | more room for happy memories |  |  | there |  |  | vn exist-47.1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 4 | **pain** |  |  | grief |  |  |  |  | nom pain «state transitive»: of=patient |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): no change. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

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