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title: The children's answers gather the whole journey: it is okay to be ve… — Life and death: putting it all together · tree and pragmatics
description: The children's answers gather the whole journey: it is okay to be very sad when a pet dies; to a friend whose parent died you can simply say «I'm sorry» and then be a normal friend; funerals are less scary once you know what happens; and grief comes back on birthdays and holidays, in waves that slow
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# Life and death: putting it all together, sentence 1

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The children's answers gather the whole journey: it is okay to be very sad when a pet dies; to a friend whose parent died you can simply say «I'm sorry» and then be a normal friend; funerals are less scary once you know what happens; and grief comes back on birthdays and holidays, in waves that slowly get gentler.

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**Who acts:** answers, pet, parent, you, I, funerals · **What happens:** gather, be, die, say, know, happen · **To what, where:** whole journey, normal friend, birthdays · **Speech:** someone speaks here

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This is a sentence of the lesson «Life and death: putting it all together» of the religion ethics course of Mova's primary school. The page gives its syntax tree — a dependency tree in the style of Universal Dependencies — and its pragmatics clause by clause: who acts (answers, pet, parent, you), what happens, when and where, as Mova's frames read it from the tree.

## The tree {#tree}

```conllu
# sent_id = school:religion-ethics:080-life-and-death-putting-it-all-together.lesson:1
# text = The children's answers gather the whole journey: it is okay to be very sad when a pet dies; to a friend whose parent died you can simply say «I'm sorry» and then be a normal friend; funerals are less scary once you know what happens; and grief comes back on birthdays and holidays, in waves that slowly get gentler.
# source = school lesson (ours)
# course = religion-ethics
# lesson = 080-life-and-death-putting-it-all-together.lesson
# annotation = Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2, R8-pos-agree ×1
1	The	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	2	det	_	_
2	children	child	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	4	nmod:poss	_	_
3	's	's	PART	POS	_	2	case	_	_
4	answers	answer	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	5	nsubj	_	_
5	gather	gather	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	0	root	_	_
6	the	the	DET	DT	Definite=Def|PronType=Art	8	det	_	_
7	whole	whole	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	8	amod	_	_
8	journey	journey	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	5	obj	_	_
9	:	:	PUNCT	:	_	5	punct	_	_
10	it	it	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Gender=Neut|Number=Sing|Person=3|PronType=Prs	12	expl	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=12:nsubj
11	is	be	AUX	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	12	cop	_	_
12	okay	okay	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	5	parataxis	_	_
13	to	to	PART	TO	_	16	mark	_	_
14	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	16	cop	_	_
15	very	very	ADV	RB	_	16	advmod	_	_
16	sad	sad	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	12	csubj	_	Agree=R7-rel-agree|Haiku=12:ccomp
17	when	when	SCONJ	WRB	_	20	mark	_	_
18	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	19	det	_	_
19	pet	pet	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	20	nsubj	_	_
20	dies	die	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	16	advcl	_	_
21	;	;	PUNCT	,	_	27	punct	_	_
22	to	to	ADP	IN	_	24	case	_	_
23	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	24	det	_	_
24	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	obl	_	_
25	whose	whose	PRON	WP$	Poss=Yes|PronType=Rel	26	nmod:poss	_	_
26	parent	parent	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	27	nsubj	_	_
27	died	die	VERB	VBD	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Past|VerbForm=Fin	12	conj	_	_
28	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	31	nsubj	_	_
29	can	can	AUX	MD	VerbForm=Fin	31	aux	_	_
30	simply	simply	ADV	RB	_	31	advmod	_	_
31	say	say	VERB	VB	VerbForm=Inf	27	ccomp	_	_
32	«	«	PUNCT	``	_	35	punct	_	_
33	I	I	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Number=Sing|Person=1|PronType=Prs	35	nsubj	_	_
34	'm	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=1|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	35	cop	_	_
35	sorry	sorry	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	31	ccomp	_	_
36	»	»	PUNCT	''	_	35	punct	_	Agree=R6-punct-agree|Haiku=42:punct
37	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	42	cc	_	_
38	then	then	ADV	RB	PronType=Dem	42	advmod	_	_
39	be	be	AUX	VB	VerbForm=Inf	42	cop	_	_
40	a	a	DET	DT	Definite=Ind|PronType=Art	42	det	_	_
41	normal	normal	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	42	amod	_	_
42	friend	friend	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	35	conj	_	_
43	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	47	punct	_	_
44	funerals	funeral	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	47	nsubj	_	_
45	are	be	AUX	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	47	cop	_	_
46	less	less	ADV	RBR	Degree=Cmp	47	advmod	_	_
47	scary	scary	ADJ	JJ	Degree=Pos	5	parataxis	_	_
48	once	once	SCONJ	IN	_	50	mark	_	_
49	you	you	PRON	PRP	Case=Nom|Person=2|PronType=Prs	50	nsubj	_	_
50	know	know	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=2|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	47	advcl	_	_
51	what	what	PRON	WP	PronType=Int	52	nsubj	_	_
52	happens	happen	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	50	ccomp	_	_
53	;	;	PUNCT	:	_	56	punct	_	_
54	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	56	cc	_	_
55	grief	grief	NOUN	NN	Number=Sing	56	nsubj	_	_
56	comes	come	VERB	VBZ	Mood=Ind|Number=Sing|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	47	conj	_	_
57	back	back	ADV	RB	_	56	advmod	_	_
58	on	on	ADP	IN	_	59	case	_	_
59	birthdays	birthday	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	56	obl	_	_
60	and	and	CCONJ	CC	_	61	cc	_	_
61	holidays	holiday	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	59	conj	_	_
62	,	,	PUNCT	,	_	64	punct	_	_
63	in	in	ADP	IN	_	64	case	_	_
64	waves	wave	NOUN	NNS	Number=Plur	56	obl	_	_
65	that	that	PRON	WDT	PronType=Rel	67	nsubj	_	_
66	slowly	slowly	ADV	RB	_	67	advmod	_	_
67	get	get	VERB	VBP	Mood=Ind|Number=Plur|Person=3|Tense=Pres|VerbForm=Fin	64	acl:relcl	_	Agree=R8-pos-agree|Haiku=64:acl:relcl|HaikuPos=VERB:VB:VerbForm=Inf
68	gentler	gentle	ADJ	JJR	Degree=Cmp	67	xcomp	_	_
69	.	.	PUNCT	.	_	5	punct	_	_
```

## Pragmatics {#pragmatics}

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- form: statement
- act: assert
- voice: character
- polarity: pos
- teacher: changed act=assert, polarity=pos

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| # | verb | tense, mood | who | what, whom | to whom | where | when | other | roles by |
| --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- | --- |
| 1 | **gather** | present | the children's answers | the whole journey |  |  |  |  | vn deduce-97.2 «NP V NP»: agent=Agent journey=Theme |
| 2 | **is** | present |  |  |  |  |  | okay *property* | tree rules |
| 3 | **is** | to-infinitive |  |  |  |  |  | sad *property* | tree rules |
| 4 | **die** | present | a pet |  |  |  |  |  | vn calibratable\_cos-45.6.1 «NP.attribute V»: agent=Attribute |
| 5 | **die** | past | parent |  |  |  |  | to a friend | vn long-32.2 «NP V S\_INF»: agent=Pivot clause=Theme |
| 6 | **say** *speech: assert* | can | you |  |  |  |  | simply *property* | vn say-37.7-1-1 «NP V that S»: agent=Agent |
| 7 | **is** *in a quote* | present | I |  |  |  |  | sorry *property* | tree rules |
| 8 | **is a** | infinitive | I *not said here* | a normal friend |  |  | then |  | tree rules |
| 9 | **is** | present | funerals |  |  |  |  | less, scary *property* | tree rules |
| 10 | **know** | present | you |  |  |  |  |  | vn comprehend-87.2-1-1-1 «NP V how S\_INF»: agent=Experiencer clause=Stimulus |
| 11 | **happen** | present |  |  |  |  |  |  | vn occur-48.3-1 «NP V»: agent=Theme |
| 12 | **come back** | present | grief |  |  | birthdays and holidays |  | in waves | vn appear-48.1.1 «NP V PP.location»: agent=Theme on birthday=Location |
| 13 | **get** | present | waves |  |  |  |  | gentle, slowly *property* | vn comprehend-87.2-1 «NP V S\_ING»: agent=Experiencer |
| 14 | **answer** |  | the children |  |  |  |  |  | nom answer «communication transitive»: poss=agent |

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One row per clause the reader finds. «not said here»: a role filled from the clause above. «roles by»: a VerbNet class and frame when one fits the verb, else the reader's rules on the tree.

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**The tree:** Mova annot: Rust (en) → Haiku 5.5 (medium, Batches API) patches; gates UD 2.18; agreed by treeagree rules (Stanza, Trankit, spaCy trf): R6-punct-agree ×1, R7-rel-agree ×2, R8-pos-agree ×1. **The frames** are read from the tree by Mova's frames reader (`prag`) when this page is built, the lesson read in order, so a pronoun may be resolved from an earlier sentence.

See the [release 0.4](https://md.mova.elamur.ai/free/en/releases/0.4/).

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